You dont. that is non of your business. if she wants to, she can be a slut. (or be what you define as a slut)

I wouldn't - such a thing is not polite, no matter how one says it. (It is also none of my business.)

What makes someone a "slut" is purely subjective. It's an opinion not a fact. Just be her friend.

I wouldn't tell her. I'd respect the fact that it's her life and she can live it how she chooses to :)

It sounds like your friend has self esteem issues. I have seen that in a lot of girls that think they need to dress in revealing clothes or have sex. They think this will make them feel better, but in the long run, it only hurts them and the people close to them. I would try to find out if your friend has low self esteem and help her build it up. Good luck.

Perhaps she is wondering how to politely tell you to stop being such a prude?

'Stop being such a slut'. I wouldn't advise it, though. Most people don't like being called a slut.

I wouldn't. No matter the concerns I may conjure about her lifestyles and her well being, it's not for me to dictate her way of life, and secondly people learn much better through experience, not through preaching. Maybe if I was a reformed slut I would try, at least I would know what I was talking about.

I'd definitely tell her AFTER I'd had sex with her!

If you're her friend and you want to say something then do it. Good friends can say anything to eachother. Be blunt about too. She may tell you to piss off, but she'll get over it very quickly. She may not change, but you never know. It's ultimately up to her how she wants to live. If it bothers you too much, find a new friend.

If you can't handle who she is, maybe you should go your separate way. Or, between 5th and 6th periods you can scream across the hall, "HEY! STOP BEING A SLUT!". She'll appreciate it later. Everyone appreciates it when their friends judge them through the filter of prejudice, trust me.

I would never. If her behavior around you is embarassing, that's what I would address.

I wouldn't, I don't think there's any way to politely call someone a slut. If you want to, I suppose just tell it like it is. "stop being such a slut." If you want to keep your friend though, it doesn't sound like a good idea.

I wouldn't tell her. It'll catch up with her eventually. If you can't stand it anymore, maybe you shouldn't be friends with her.

This is kind of a delicate situation. The way I suggest handling it is for you to give me your name and her name/contact information. The you call her and tell her this really cool guy is going to call her. Wait about 90 days then the her, "Yo, woman! Stop being a slut!"?

Who they do or don't sleep with is none of your business, and if that's what you think, then your not a friend in the first place.

there is no way of politely telling another person you disagree with their lifestyle. And, ask yourself "who am i to be telling them what is right or wrong?" The only thing you can do it provide her with condoms, and encourage her practice safe sex. Its her life. She can do what she wants. She will pay for any mistakes that happen down the line, and when she confides in you, you will be a good friend. But, if you tell her to stop, and then she gets pregnant, dumped, or an STD, then she will have a hard time coming to you for support after you told her not to do it b/c she will think you are judging you. And friendship is all about accepting ppl for who they are. Plus, as time passes, she may change her ways... :-)

Any friend of mine would know better than to expect me to say anything but "Stop being a slut." And I personally wouldn't deal with anyone that I felt I couldnt be that honest with and well recieved... That is what friends are to and for one another. There is no beating around the bush ( no pun intended) for some things as long as they are factual and not based on your opinion of her actions alone. If she is putting herself in harms way does the WAY that you say it really matter?

You can tell them all you want, but people do what people want to do regardless of what their friends and family want them to do, good luck.

You Dont. It's nothing to u wat your freind is or wants to be, You'll just hurt her feelings and to be honest your not much of a freind if you do.

It is not about being polite, harsh what ever. It is about your friendship. Do you value your friendship? If so to what level? Life and Death level? First tell yourself I am willing to do an act of good for her sake no matter what. If not, then you still risk losing the friendship. If you really care for someone and know they are doing wrong you tell how it needs to be told in order to remove them from harm, crime, whatever. If they refrain from talking to you initially, if they value your friendship they will come around to talk to you again. If after good advise they are not willing to change and you still lose her. She never saw you as a real friend in the first place. And someone like that could do more harm than good to your loved ones. If she is good in her heart she will realize you were protecting her and no matter what your actions, I t will be much appreciated by her. It is about right and wrong and a person who stops an action for someones sake is better than a person telling them, And a person who does not stop an act or tell them the right thing and may only resent their wrong in their heart. They are weak in faith. Who are you the doer, stopper, or the teller, or the one who only resents a wrong act in the heart. Be the stopper!

it really dosent matter how u say it as long as you say it to where they understand and get the point.

Let her no as your doing her and her head is banging against the wall or headboard

I wouldn't pass any judgement on her, for one. She's just doing what she wants to do. Is that really so wrong? Secondly, if you don't want to hang around someone that doesn't hold the same values as you do, then don't do it. Thirdly, if she's really your friend, you should be able to explain to her how you're feeling regardless of what it's about, and she should show you the reciprocity of true friendship by respecting what you say.

You don't. If it bothers you that much stop hanging around her.

I probably wouldn't even be a friend with someone like that in the first place!

I guess " close your legs u friggin whore " is no good. just give her a talk about reputations in general and disease. maybe she'll get the hint.

I don't think unless she asks for your opinion there is any way to be polite about something like that. My advice? MYOB.

I don't think it is up to you to be critical of someone else's sex life. To be blunt I think you should MYOB.

"I feel it's my duty as a friend to advise you that it would probably be a good idea if you stopped behaving like a dirty low-down whore."

Dear friend, would you please STOP BEING A SLUT? (capital letters are there for a reason) ;)

like u said, politely....probably won't do any good...may help her see hopefully, but we have to understand it has more to do with "character" make-up of ourselves...our moral and ethical values...they obviously don't understand(or care) what a person of good character sees as wrong or what others see their character as.... she has no respect for herself...so how can anyone else have respect for her... hopefully she will listen...good luck....

,______I'm not telling you how to live your life, or start shit with you,im just telling you this because i care about you, and your my friend.your acting hoe-ishh. and i dont want you to be seen that way.i dont want anyone to take advantage of you. i hope you dont take this up the ass.<3

Well sometimes there is no nice way to put it. Your hanging around with her and I bet that a lot of people think the same way about you... even if you don't act that way. Have you ever heard the statement "Guilty by association"? If I were you I'd drop that friend... and find friends that don't want to run around like sluts. If you don't want to take that as an option... tell her that you don't want to tell her what to do... and you don't want her to be offended... but you notice that she is acting a little slutty and you don't want others to see her or yourself that way. Just tell her to be more modest. I don't know though I'd be the friend that walked away and said "I don't want to be considered a slut because I hang out with one" LOL

Stop being a slut PWEEZE

You can't. It would hurt her feelings.

if shes a slut? what is a slut? by your standards or hers? she has a right to do as she pleases, you dont call us guys sluts do you????

&quot;Verily I say to thee, that if thou were to spread thy legs any further or more often, thou wouldst most certainly split thyself at a subatomic level."

Dear Friend, Stop being such a open-to-anything(If you know what I mean)-street-like-lady. XOXO, Your Best Friend. PS; Stop wearing that leopard mini skirt with those 5-inch heels. I was told is not healthy.

What is the definition of "slut" to you... and what is making this person a "slut"?