ANSWERS: 66
  • No, why? Unless I like feeling like a fool and to feel pain. Actually the latter is very me unfortunately.
  • Depends on the circumstance. I can understand if a guy goes to a party, gets totally hammered, and some hot red-head's grinding up on him. Not saying I wouldn't be upset, and I'd probably only let him do it once, but stuff happens. If he's truly sorry, I'd give him another chance.
  • No. I would want some dialogue (sp?), but but if my partner can't talk to me as it is, there's no reason to stay.
  • probably not but i might suggest an open relationship
  • Did it with my ex. No... We didn't divorce because of it.
  • No there is a certain line that if he crosses he know that is would be the end of the relationship.
  • No i would sleep with her sister to get back at her lol
  • Thanks for giving me a chance to work on my Bob Blaylock impression: No, I would not.
  • No. I'm too old to be playing games.
  • probably not.
  • It has happened and I did take him back...but mine was an odd circumstance and there who no physical intimacy involved (which does NOT make it any easier). If I ever did anything like that I would feel compelled to admit guilt...my conscious would eat me alive.
  • It would be very, very painful, but I would have her come back although I think it would take a little bit of time for things to be completely normal again. I never cheated on my wife when we were married, but one time I did fall in love and before this happened we had discuss that if anything ever happened we would honestly discuss it with each other. But it backfired, after I told her how I was feeling, she held it against me, and I wished I had just lived with it and not mention it to her. Well she had said that we should be honest with each other and if we were not feeling well go to the partner, in this case,her, for help, but it was a mistake. Women get very hurt over this kind of things.
  • If my partner "cheated" on me I would never consider throwing him out of my life. We are all entitled to diverse lives and he is just as free as I am. Who can be with one person all the time?
  • Yes in a heartbeat
  • If I had a "partner" he would be my husbad and he would never cheat on me, because he would be a Bible reading person. Read your Bible!
  • Yes if there was a reason behind it. If he said he loved the other person then no. But if there is a problem in the relationship and we really love each other, then it'd be worth trying to solve it than living the rest of you life of "What if.."
  • Nope, I've delt with that before, if they cheat once, they will more then likely do it again.
  • Only if she was hot..
  • G'day Ms Durant, Thank you for your question. It depends on the circumstances. I would have to feel fairly certain that it wouldn't happen again. Regards
  • Yeah but things would never be like they are now.
  • no...i was given this situation where my boyfriend did cheat and wanted a second chance...i couldn't do it because i knew it would happen again...i'm not saying that every person who cheats once will do it again...but i know my heart wouldn't be able to let go of it
  • no i dont think so because if they had that much disrespect to do that then they obviously dont care about you
  • NO..never would trust them again so just would not work..
  • hell no. theres no such thing as second chances. only miracles
  • NEVER,EVER,NEVER. I would end up killing him in the end if I had to stay near him.
  • H*LL no! Made that mistake once before with an ex...will NEVER do it again!
  • Easy answer...absolutely not...no questions asked or answered.
  • Nope. Not unless she straight out told me ahead of time that she was going to do that. Then I might consider staying with her out of respect for the honesty, but I would certainly go out and " do my own thing" in return.
  • Probably. I know that for guys at least love and sex can be completly separate. If my guy got drunk one night and used some poor girl for her body I would get over it. Wouldn't want it to happen all the time...but shit happens and people make messed up decisions. I would end things with him if he ended up falling for her. Any repeat offenses or continued contact would not be okay. After all, sex is just sex, but love is special.
  • If by partner you mean husband or wife then Definitely NOT.
  • Nope. I work out 6 days a week. I can hook something new up in a matter of hours.
  • No, I wouldn't. In fact, I was in a relationship with someone who not only cheated, but also lied all of the time and would never commit. Needless to say, I ended that relationship.
  • I'm not yet looking for a long term commitment type relationship so yes, I probably would.
  • i had he didnt cheat on me though and i didnt know he had cheated on his 'babie's mama' with me until later in our relationsip. im soooo glad that relationship ended.
  • no i couldnt stay in the relationship as i wouldnt be able to trust them
  • I doubt it. I mean, if he had a good explanation, then I may try... But I imagine the betrayal of my trust would get to me and I'd have to end it.
  • IF we were still dating, I would leave and move on If we are married, i might seek for marriage counselor, if I found that my S/O is serial cheater, I divorce them.
  • never.
  • Not likely. Life is too short. Time marches on so leave and start over before 5 years go by and you're still making excuses.
  • Not at all. That is nothing I could ever overlook or forgive.
  • Under no circumstances would I stay. There are some things that I just can’t forgive and that is one of them.
  • If they have cheated they have shown you that they have no respect for you, and they don't have the commitment it takes to be in a relationship. Without 100% commitment from both partners even the strongest relationship can fail.
  • I am in one. I normally wouldn't, but this guy is different. I'm not just saying that, either.
  • only idiots stay with cheaters..IF YOU WERENT SPECIAL or important enough to stay faithfull the first time what makes you special the second time
  • You never know for sure what you'll do until it happens to you. I tried to make it work after my ex-wife cheated, but couldn't handle it. We divorced less than a year after the affair.
  • definately not. i wouldnt be able to trust the person anymore and i couldnt be in a relationship without trust.
  • hell no! trust is everything!
  • I think that question is broad and there are a lot things that could add to the senario. and an answer can change depending on the situation. We need to take into consideration - children, one time thing vs a long time or serial fling. Is the cheater willing to work out the issues. So to answer you question - I would automatically say no - but reserve the right of Maybe.
  • no i don't think i could, ever. i wouldn't be able to trust him again and if i stay in that kind of situation i would always worry that he's still cheating and be all stressed out about it. that doesn't sound like love.
  • No. I wouldnt and I didnt either.
  • That is a hard question I think. I don't believe mine would cheat on me. I think my previous perhaps did, but then we were not really in love with each other, so I was not blinded by love.
  • Still trying to figure that one out. I think it is a personal decision that depends on the circumstances...
  • No not under any circumstances.
  • Nope never. simple as that. Once a cheater always a cheater. Its not that hard to keep your genitals to ONE person. If they cant do that is says alot about the commitment of that person. No forgiveness no mater what that person does.
  • No, I could possibly be friends with them eventually, but I could never take them back.
  • No, cause I wouldn't be able to trust him again.
  • Depends. I mean it would depend how i found out. If I found out from anyone other than him I would leave him. It would depend to what extent. If it was more than a one time thing I would leave him. And it would depend on his attitude and how he handled the situation. Problem is if I kept him it would be hard to gain that trust back I would probably try but I don't think it would last due to me probably not able to trust him again. We would have a lot of talking to do, but one thing is for sure I would not just leave with out discussing things first and hearing him out.
  • no i divorced him.
  • Under certain circumstances, yes.
  • No, I would not take them back, but that is just me. If you did take them back there is always the chance that they will do it again. Many people who cheat end up doing it again sometime in their life. I do not believe that for that type of situation that a person deserves a second chance.
  • HELL NO! Once a cheater always a cheater!
  • NO!!! never in a million years
  • I believe that the saying once a cheater always a cheater is true... for some people. I think if you REALLY love someone, that it is worth trying to work things out. It just depends on the situation. It takes a lot of strength amd courage to forgive someone after they've done you wrong, but it can certainly be done. So take a good long look at the situation you're in and then decide based on how YOU feel. Not on how everybody else on here feels. Ask yourself if you can get past this bump in the road. Can you fully trust this person ever again? Is it worth trying to work things out? Just remember to make your decision based on how YOU truely feel. Good Luck and I wish you the best!!!

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