Should a woman ever pursue a man who has lost interest in her?
by 
mizuiislife
ANSWERS: 37
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I personally wouldn't. It may be easier said than done, but it's usually just going to cause more heartache.
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No, IMO. That would make her look desperate. Many men are turned off by that. I think she should focus her attention on someone who would value her as a person.
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Well, no, I don't think so. Not unless she has a thing for emotional pain. I am a man, and I have never persued a woman after it was obvious she had no interest. Life is wa-a-a-y to short for that!
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Yes, maybe she can spark his interest in her again.
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No she shouldnt but saying and doing are a different story i stayed with a man who wasnt really interested and it caused me nothink but heart ache get out while the goings good dont prolong it for a year like i did! I wasnt desperate i was just in love with him!
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nah, there's more than one fish in the ocean.
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sure,if you sincerely love him,you should give the relationship another chance.
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Only if she has time and self-esteem to throw away.
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Ummm.... Only if she's married to him, or in a similar situation. And then, not hotheadedly or with illogical passion. Not saying that passion is wrong, but passion only with no thought or real conviction usually turns a guy off.
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Unless there is some sort of permanent link like kids or a marriage. Why bother. Find some one who cares about you.
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I don't really see the point in chasing a hopeless dream.... if you really love him, just wait until he comes around again if he does, but keep your options open and try to move on..... Just my two cents.
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No don't do it. It doesn't work.
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I have read dating, psychology, and spiritual books... and on all of these different subjects I have read, the same thing, if the woman pursues a man, he may accept, for obvious reasons; he's flattered and it feels a like compliment... but the other side of the coin will be that when the relationship issues arise he will not put any effort into fixing the problem(s) all because he never moved a finger to pursue her, so now he lets her do the work, which in turn ends up causing heart-ache to her... bottom line -moral of the story is that the relationship is not destined to be in the first place, therefore it wont be very long lasting and even if it is...it'll be a painful one.
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No, that just makes them think you are desperate. It will not get them back.
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No. What would be the point? That's very annoying. You'll just make him hate you more.
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No. Maintain your dignity. I know it's hard but you just have to do it.
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No. How humiliating that must be.
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NO WAY! Because is the man doesn't like you now, he will never like you.
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*sigh* No. Know when it's time to back away gracefully. Pursuing someone who has no interest in them only serves to make a woman seem desperate and rather pathetic.
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no. There are so many men out there that I'd want to focus my time with ones who are chasing me rather than me chasing them...
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No. Pursuing him is only going to make you seem desperate and less desirable. Maintain a level of pride and respect for yourself and find someone who is truly interested in you.
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Oh no!
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aboslutly not because theirs always someone out their who is willing to love u unconditionally and treat u the way that u should be treated
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Only if you like torture.
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To me it seems kind of like chasing a dog who is tired of being petted. Just let it go, hon.
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Why would you bother? Plenty more fish in the sea
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NO.
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should they? no do they? yes
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No, men love to be the pursuers. Chase after him and you may have his interest--but only as a booty call. It's better to step back. He may remember what interested him in you in the first place. If that happens, great! In the meantime, do something just for YOU. Take a class, develop a hobby or hang out at the gym more often. Working out is great for your body, self-esteem and making new friends. Put him on the back burner. Funny thing about taking a step back--sometimes it causes the man to take a step forward.
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Why would she humiliate herself like that? That is pathetic..having so little regard for oneself that she would keep wanting someone who had rejected her! I don't understand the kind of thought process that would make that okay! :)
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I believe that the woman should state clearly one time only exactly what she feels and then move on. If his interest is back... he will come back. Otherwise, let go of what is supposed to go.
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no she shouldn't.
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Well...he doesn't want to be with you...so you should leave him alone...and find someone else who does. Because believe me, there are PLENTY of other men who ARE interested in you.
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Speaking from experience regretted, no, it might hurt NOT to try but it'll hurt even more being rejected again if he's aleady told you he's lost interest.
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Sure. Sometimes, a make over, a new hairstyle, or some new sexy smelling cologne will make a guy's flame rekindle.:)
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Sure, why not. It might turn out just fine in the end.
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no, just like men, women should pursue thos who are interested... but that never happens
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