Would you rather have a great intellectual connection, or an amazing sexual one with your partner?
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Intellect is sexy in it's own right so I will go for it
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The two don't exclude each other. I have found that the more intellectual, the more sexual. Think about it... Your largest sex organ is your brain.
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Sorry...........can't be so 1 dimensional..... I wonder how Albert Einsteins partner would of answered this.
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well the way i look at it if sumone is really smart they can cum up wit creative ways to pleez you
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Intellect is a wonderful thing.
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Depends on the time, place, and circumstances.... Hmmm, let me amend that. I thought at first you were talking about individual encounters with your partner, but now I wonder if you mean the whole general tone of your relationship. Well, I have been in a situation where my partner and I had amazing sexual chemistry, but we were like garlic and chocolate--nothing wrong with either one, but they don't go together. A relationship that's all intellect and no *wow* would seem more like a fantastic friendship. I think a good long term relationship that is bound to last would require both--but personally I'd rather see it balanced more on the intellectual side. As my deceased husband used to say, "You've got to have something to talk about once you get out of bed."
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i have both with my husband!
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Sex is good. Brains are better. Men who are good at sex and bad at brains make girls cry. Duh.
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Ummm sex is good!
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Brains over sex, but having both has been really nice.
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great intellectual connection, i can always buy some sex on the side...lol, jk
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Well, in my experience, a great mental connection has usually enhanced the sexual one. I don't have a great experience history, as far as variety goes, but I haven't felt a "loss" because of that.
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A good conversation with my partner would stimulate me much more than sex... It is more amazing for minds to connect than erm body parts. Sex can add to a relationship it is also i believe another way of expression. However you cannot have a relationship without emotional/intellectual connection.
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Sorry I would like both. Two heads are better than one.
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Intellectual. There is no amazing sexual connection without a great intellectual one.
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the wonders of the brain always amazes me. def. going for the brains!
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I can just hear Marty McFly pleading, "But Doc...DOC..." and the response as always is, "Not now Marty, I'm thinking."
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I have both.
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An intellectual connection is a sexual one as well.
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intellect. when i'm 80 and i can only have sex once a year, we're going to need something else to fall back on.
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If it were a purely sexual one, they wouldn't be my partner, they'd be my fuck buddy.
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I'm not sure! which one is better?
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intellectual!
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I don't like either of the two extremes and neither are what I looked for when searching for a mate. There are much more important things. Just plain understanding, good listening and talking are more foundational to any relationship. Great sex is nice but it isn't anything to build a lifetime on. Intellect is too subjective.
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How about a great emotional connection.
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You have to first consider that even sex with the same person becomes boring after awhile. Sooner or later your going to have to sit down and talk with them. If there not on your level or you cant see eye to eye then it was a waist of time to begin with. Never forget the best love is self love
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You have to have both. But honestly I don't think that the sex is as important as having someone you can have a real connection with, feel comfortable with and honestly have a bond that is unbreakable. I am not sure if you would call it intellectual...rather I think spiritual. So I guess my answer is neither is as important as an amazing spiritual connection. Sex can be learned and can change as each of you needs it to (if you have the spiritual connection that makes you comfortable enough with your partner to discuss, explore, create, experience, etc). Intellectual compatibility is #2 after spiritual.
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If I had to choose, amazing sexual connection. I can have a great intellectual connection with just about anyone.
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Sexual for me, I'd rather finish up trying to catch my breath rather trying to figure out what we just talked about.
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Obviously- BOTH
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I'd like both, but I f had to choose, sex is much more stimulating and satisfying.
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I haven't had sex in 30 years...may I have one that's intellectual enough to offer me amazing sex??? 😅😆😈😍
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