• i forgive minor things never forgive cheating or murder
  • Giver of forgiveness? I forgive. I understand that forgiveness is not for the offender, but for the offended. Forgiving doesn't mean what they did was o.k. or even worthy of forgiveness. It means you will not take over the job (mentally) of continuing to hurt yourself by giving them time in your head. You will put it in the past and leave it there so you don't allow them to continue to hurt you in your present! And life is full of what you look for from it. If you continue to look for offenses and unkind people that is what you will find. If you look for the beauty in your world it is there, too. And if you quit seeing everyone in your life as an enemy you might find they've never had anything against you to begin with.

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