• You can't 'make them defensive'. That is their choice, and its entirely on them. However, the fact you even asked this question shows you have the ability to ask the question just fine! There is nothing wrong with setting reasonable boundaries, in fact its healthy for a relationship. I inherited a 'look' from my mother that says 'you've crossed a line!' But I don't think it works as well at filtering the don't get defensive aspect nearly as well! Hahaha.
    • Boola Boo
      OoOOOOOOO what kind of look? : )

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