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  • yes it's very possible i for one hate someone becouse i love them so mutch, well then again i dont hate them but still, love is a very complex feeling..... (lol your sitting right next to me hahaha ok im over it)
  • Sometime they call that a Love/Hate Relationship and if it gets unhealthy it's time to move on
  • Ain't love grand. Such a mixed bag. When it comes to a sibling it is definetly possible. Of course you love them their blood related, but sometimes they drive you crazy! Thus the mixed emotions. Usually it seems to be a collision of surface emotions from a circumstance.
  • What you are experiencing is opposite ends of the same emotion. When you feel strongly about someone, your reactions to them are more intense. Take some time to analyze the reasons behind your reactions. Remember that only you are responsible for your happiness, and if you feel like a yo-yo around someone, it's time to cut the string.
  • I believe that love and hatred are not two opposites, but actually rather similar. They are both intense feelings about someone you care about. I think that the whole love/hate thing is where you love the person, but hate the things they do or hate the person and love the things they do. However I often feel that people use the words love and hate too loosly as well.
  • You are capable of this, because hate is not the opposite of love. Both hate and love represent strong emotions caused by a person having a significance in your life. The complete opposite of strong feelings is utter apathy.
  • maybe what your feeling isn't love, the person is just filling a deep need you have for something, and you really dont like the person.. that situation of love/hate has happened to me, and then after we broke up like years later i still missed him..until finally i realized imissed the comfort and not him. It could go the other way though with others that feel they love someone yet hate them..since you could really truly love them and have to figure out what it is your so mad about and if maybe the feeling is coming from you and not the other person.
  • i think so. love and hate are more closely linked than love and like or hate and dislike. both require passion of a sort.
  • Love and Hate are simply expressions of a deep seated passion. For example, I love my Ex-faince even a year and a half after we broke up, yet at the same time I hate him, he makes me want to scream and yell and throw things, But either way he is in my mind and I am feel very passionatly about him. ( and i feel like he feels the same) Its very easy in fact to love and hate someone at the same time. especially if they mean more than most people to you, they are closer to your heart so the things that they do bring out a deeper emotion than most people would. therefore if you love someone and something bad happens that anger comes into a form of hate since they are so deeply seated in your life. Again the love is always there but the anger turns to hate and hence you love and hate someone at the same time. The best thing to do is to accept that this person is very deeply attached to your heart and no matter what happens the feelings that they elicit from you will always be very passionate, whether it be hate or love or both they are simply something you are passionate about.
  • love them for what they mean to you, hate them for what they've done to you
  • Ithink for men it would be the fact that i would love someone somuch i could not go on doing the things i do because it would ,make the one i love notlove me and i could not lie to them
  • i have that problem right now. im dating somebody right and i love him and he loves me but theres also somebody else that i have feelings for. i know that i dont love him, i just have big feelings for him. so i hate him because im afraid that it will hurt my relationship with my bf.
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  • I had a few girlfriends where I thought for some reason they would change and as I was dating them I realized that I was in love with who they could become, which was more like who they would never become. So I ended up ending it because I loved who they were deep down but hated the decisions they made and it pained me too much to see them continue those decisions.
  • who knows what we feel and how can dictate or discribe it perfectly... I just say roll with it and if you need to decide something along the way do so, but to love and to hate i guess i am not able to answer your question for i think people think to much about something which is so simple and so easy to realise it's just hard to acccept the truth...
  • Yes. But I wouldn't recomend it on the same day if you can avoid it. Way too confusing. Often ends up in someone getting hurt, often physically. Try to keep them seperated by at least 24 hours.
  • You don't have kids do you?
  • love the person, hate the action
  • think about the +ve's and -ve's at a time. You can love and hate simultaneously.
  • I agree with many. As for my particular situation, I like this person but I hate(dislike) the person for making me feel the feelings I feel. Still, It's my fault for falling too easily.
  • By using the same emotional flexibility that5 lets you love 2 people at the same time or at least be wildly infatuated
  • love is that emotion of attachment and strong attraction or effection and hate is resenting and despising for something about them or something they did. i honestly dont believe you can love someone without hating em.
  • If the person you love has a split personality.
  • I love my dad but hate his acts
  • Love them because they are a wonderful friend/relative. Hate them because they are freakin annoying.
  • very easily i love this guy most of the time but then he can do something and i just hate him so much
  • Love just overtakes everything I guess. But a little hate goes with it too. haha
  • You can love someone so much, while they don't give a cats whisker for you, thus inspiring feelings of hatred for them while that feeling of love is still undeniably there. This excruciatingly nudges away at suicidal urges in your head till you die pointlessly ald alone.
  • if you love someone and hate them, they are family.
  • well its kind of easy part of you hates him and part of you loves himm soo
  • its a very interesting emotion. i call it hove.
  • You will find that if you separate the person you love from the act that you hate, it will be much easier.

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