• well you could tell a lie...NOT! be up front tell her the whole truth and tell her that you still love her (if you do) dont be all "im sorry babe let me make it up to you" if you really love her then you will learn from your mistakes and wont do it again. You need to make it clear to your girlfriend that you love her and that you care about her far to much to make the same mistake twice.
  • Naughty beg.....
  • Open your mouth and let it fly. The delivery is irrelevant.
  • OMG you just have to tell her, and decide if you love her or not, i just found out my bf cheated and it hurts!! but i love him and now's where we decide what to do...don't hide because she'll eventually find out and you wont have a chance with her if you don't tell her yourself now!
  • ok just tell her its not not that hard. just say i cheated on you and get it over with ok
    • Satisfied Pilgrim
      Dishonesty is the best policy...
    • Keble Bolly-Jocksford
      You might think so, KDP, but not many people I know would agree with you.
  • Wearing a helmet.
  • Don't. Lie instead if you want to keep her. "Never explain - your friends do not need it and your enemies won't believe you anyway." -Elbert Hubbard
  • I disagree. You shouldn't tell her. What is the good that would come from it? Sure, it might relief your own guilt, but you've just transferred your garbage onto her. Instead, examine why you cheated. If you feel badly and don't want to do it again, then don't. If you feel you cheated b/c of an issue within the relationship, talk to her about that issue and worth through it.
  • Don't or 90 percent of the time it's over.
  • Best not to do that. If you are out to absolve your own feelings of guilt then that would be selfish. If you think she will find out then it is best coming from you. But as long as you take care of her and are there for her she will not question that. If she knows then she knows it will most likely happen again which changes the nature of your relationship.
  • Uh Honey- I cheated on you. Something fierce. Yes with your kid sister. C'mon honey, text me back already!
  • "Darling, you know we've not been getting on so well lately, yes? In a weak moment I jumped into bed with your brother and we kinda did stuff, like sexual stuff. It's okay though cos we did not kiss and I do not love him like I love you. Darling. Darling. Please come back...."
  • If it was me, I would admit it to her face and let her punish me.
    • beaker95
      Do you enjoy pain....?
  • You don't! You keep your mouth shut and stay out of other people's business. this could cost you the friendship of both involved. The truth will eventually come out so just let it lay.

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