Why dont boys like tom boys? how do i get a bf? im in grd 11 and i havent kissed a boy or had a bf ever help!!!
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bonny34
ANSWERS: 13
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whatever you do, don't stop being yourself, if you haven't been kissed that means that you are a rare gem harder to be spotted but much more appreciated when found. You can work on your social abilities and modify a thing or two so you feel better about yourself but keep your core, keep what you really are.
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Honey let me add that you need to calm down a bit. There is no need to rush these things. Kissing a boy shouldn't be about anything but love. Too often people make it into a social status thing and thats not anything it should be. Wait for someone that you love and that loves you, don't rush something like that because your afraid that you might not be cool because of it.
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Honey, don’t rush. Not kissing someone is not end of life. Patience brings sweeter fruits. There is always someone special waiting for you, just came in the world for you. Meet more people. Never go by what others think of you. More important, believe in yourself.
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don't change for boy's. men count and they don't want those stuckup "like whatever" bimbos from school at least not the mature worth your time men. so hold out go out where you feel comfy and meet men who are interested in real woman.
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You may have to wait til college. You have grown up with these people and they can only see you as one way. You need fresh eyes looking at you.
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Boys do like tom boys. I was one, and I also didn't have a boyfriend until grade 11. Kissing random boys is overrated anyway. It's much more fun when you're really interested in someone. Just relax, try to be yourself, and certainly don't go out and try to make yourself appear to be different than you really are. You will find the boys that like you for you. You don't want a boy to like you for who you are pretending to be. I know it sucks. I always felt like I was the only one who didn't have boys interested in me. My friends always got dates, and boys asking about them. It took a long time before I got to have the same experiences. But, let me tell you, the boys that I did find were much better than any of those boys my friends found! They were worth the wait!
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Wow....just because society illustrates that you "should" have a boyfriend or you "should" have kissed a boy by now, doesn't mean that you should join the crowd. It'll happen, don't worry. But don't rush it. There are far more things that your should be this concerned about at the present time in your life. Don't change who YOU are just to fit the societal 'norm.' Who is to say that it is "nessisary" you have a boyfriend when you are, what, 16? 17? Wait until college when your life begins to pan out and you see what and who you you are and really see yourself with.
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Don't worry! You are still so young and have plenty of time for kissing/boyfriends. I didnt have my first kiss until the summer after 11th grade. Then, in 12th grade I had a lot of meaningless hook-ups, but they were just that, meaningless. Wait until it really means something. Don't rush! Chin up, keep smiling, and have fun!
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Ive always liked out going girls yet a lot of males dislike woman that can be independent.Thats because the men are insecure with their own mucho-homophobic hang ups.Just be your self,dont try to change your -self for others,You will find the right person so do not rush an make a mess that will not work...
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Just don't rush it. When the time comes along, you will find someone that will love you for who you are and you will kiss the right person for the right reason. Believe me, rushing into anything like that is not something you want to do. I just finished high school and I was in the same rush you were. I got my heart broken many times. Most guys are very immature at that age.
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You should hook up with this AB member with similar concerns. http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/91993 You may also search AB for "I am 14 and never had a girlfriend" for a list of available suitors!
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If you care that much being a tom-boy is not for you! What do you really get out of being one? Nothing! Try wearing bell bottoms and a babydoll top. With Tennis shoes. Guys will love that you've changed!
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Hi, ehm about that "boys dont like tomboys" idea; ive got to tell you that Im a man and im totally into them. SInce i was like 10 i started to like tomboys. (im 14) Ive loved em ever since :D
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