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  • Well, it sounds like he KNOWS he has a crusty apt and no car and that he really wants to be rich so he could have better things. I dont know how in conversation it comes up to judge if he is trying to impress you.
  • I would think that he is denying the fact that he is 39 and not rich. Maybe he has some issues about his life. If you are planning to date an older man, make sure that he is an issue free one!
  • LMAO, probably if you arent successful by 39 it aint happening, FOR THE MOST PART
  • Crusty? Lol. Okay. Well, it's hard to say if he thinks he is trying to impress you or not because he is saying he wants to be rich and not that he is rich. It's not likely he will become rich, but, don't underestimate the power that can come from being backed into a corner. There are a lot of former homeless people who have become rich.
  • Perhaps he is thinking you are his "meal ticket". Do not loan or give him any money. Trust me on this one.
  • I don't think it's fear of commitment. If I can be completely candid with you, this strikes me as someone who is lazy, self-indulgent, and thinks that life has one coming to him. You don't sit around and wait for opportunity and success to fall in your lap. You act. Expectations (especially unrealistic ones) do not put food on the table or pay rent. I am indifferent to the age of this man. I wouldn't tolerate this mindset in a 24 year old or a 50 year old. Adulthood means taking responsibility for your life and owning your choices. What you do is a measure of who you are. He seems seriously stuck in a rut, and his pompous attitude may be the reason why. I doubt he is trying to impress you, so much as he wants to stroke his own ego... which is already apparently too cool to get somewhere the way honest people make a living for themselves and their significant others.
  • What was the attraction? "Crusty" sounds like dirty to me..no car is o.k. They cost so much to own anyway. Everyone wants to be rich..what is he doing about it? :)
  • If he has a crusty apartment then I would be concerned about the state of his underwear. This is your chance to bring home the bacon AND fry it up in a pan.............

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