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Hmmm, I can't tell exactly what he means by this - sounds like a mixed compliment. Is he trying to get you back? It sounds like it to me.
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It sounds as if he is going through a stage of insecurity, may trust your opinion and needs reassurance. Your initial response probably did not help him much. I would bring it up again and let him know you thought about his question more, and wanted to let him know that even though you two are not together you still consider him attractive and a catch. Even if you are stretching (or not) the truth, you will give him back some of his confidence that he seems to have lost for one reason or another. We all need building up some time or another, whether we ask for it or not. He asked. If you are a good friend to him, I hope you will give him that confidence builder, he seems to trust you.
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Maybe he thinks highly of you and wanted your opinion.
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I dont think it was a stupid question, he is your ex, so obviously he worried about how you look at him now.
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