ANSWERS: 13
  • Yes, it is. Why does it happen? Have you already within you decided he's not your ideal husband? Have you been married for awhile? Are you going through pregnacy? Are you sure that he is getting on your nerves or are you getting on his nerves? Ask again with a greater question!
  • It could mean you are stressed out .. or you need to add something new to your life to break the monotony. Relationships after a time can become bland.. I think.. with stress.. sometimes we tend to take it out on those close to us.. who put up with us.. relationships are a constant work in progress.. I watch friends trade significant others regularly and they keep trading the old for the new.. the new feeling of "in love" .. the next one they go to.. things are great in the begining . .. it wans off and instead of working to make it better.. they start over with someone else. Over and over. To me.. we are all individuals and need our own space and hobbies.. others are not responsible for our total happiness.. we have to contribute to it as well. .. maybe you need something new to do.. maybe you are simply bored or need something to stimulate you and perk you up? Just suggestions.. not meant to offend.
  • Well yes I would say it's a bad thing. You should vent your feelings to him. Maybe he could improve on whatever gets on your nerves. In the meantime take lots of deep breaths and count to 10 when he starts up. If that doesn't work take a walk.
  • A successful marriage isn't about the things you have in common, it's about the things you can put up with, no it's not a bad thing.
  • Well, my husband gets on my nerves really bad about once a month...lol... my point is that over the years I've learned when I am REALLY bothered by him, it usually has more to do with me.
  • I am very peaceful person, but I also want to choke my other half sometimes! I agree the comments made above- especially the ones about finding inner happiness on your own, and really just being responbile for your own happiness rather than depending on your mate for such things. It's all about balance....Finding things that you can enjoy and do together so that you can continue to grow together, and also maintaining some individual interests... I have found that there is just no escaping the fact that there will be times that you get on one anothers nerves, and just learn how to cope with that without saying and doing things that harm the trust within the relationship.
  • My wife gets on my nerves several times a day but I love her more than anything in the world so as long as you can tolerate him then no its not a problem.
  • if it's 24/7 then yes. You both have to work on your problems or it would lead to divorce.
  • If you think you've got it bad...my husband gets these little obsessions and then ditches them as quickly as he picks them up. Fish tanks, paintball, online games like mobsters and tribal wars...someone shoot me.
  • If it is than I'm hiddious
  • Ohhhhh don't sound good.
  • Sounds bad. It's time to try to understand what is happening to you and your husband. My advice would be to consider four elements : your husband, yourself, your relation and the actual situation. Now, assess stakes and values, then look at the balance. But don't do it on your own. This is only to be fairly done as part of a couple ordinary life. You know,divorce begins exactly when each one establishes his/her own balance.

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