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  • Put some photo's on your laptop of your ex boyfriends. If you did'nt have any, find the cutest guys you can find and do the same thing. Don't make a fuss over the pictures, he knows it presses your button. It's part of his immaturity. Just ignor his pictures and pretend you don't really care. as long as you're allowed to do the same thing. If you don't have a laptop, get some pictures for your wallet.
  • Yeah, so? What's wrong with that? You can't expect him to get rid of every single picture that has someone who once meant something to him.
  • Its not a problem. I mean, you already know what she looks like. HE already knows what she looks like, probably with fewer clothes on, too. But he still dropped her and then got with you. Unless the pictures are porno, or she dumped him and he's not over her, then the info in those shots is old news. If you demand he removes them you are going to look jealous and insecure and a little bit bossy and scary.
  • I think you should discuss it with him and say that it hurts you to know he still keeps things of hers like her photo and it would make you happier and feel more secure if he showed his respect for you and made her his ex in all things and got rid of those photos.
  • Tell him you're sorry for overreacting about the pictures, but it hurt your feelings. Have a rational discussion about your insecurity and his insensitivity. Maybe you can work it out!
  • if you told him it bothers you, in a rational way (not screaming or accusing), and he still doesn't remove them, i would guess he's a pretty young guy (teens or early-mid 20's). I dont know many men who would not be understanding of your feelings. Men might keep the pics, but they don't let the girl know. Imagine if the tables were turned, and you had naked pics of your boyfriend naked or whatever. Ask him how it would make him feel?
  • I found pics of my husband's ex gf stored on cds. They were really graphic pics of her doing striptease for him as well as pics of them having sex or her giving him oral. they were disgusting for me to see and they always will be. i still can't get the images out of my head. And what makes it worse is that this is not the first time i have found pics like this and told him about it. It is about the 4th or 5th time anf after each time he tells me he got rid of all. they are all pics from before I knew him so that is my only consolation.

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