I feel like I cant talk to him bc he will try giving me reasons why I am wrong for how I feel or think or behave. Im always wrong or I feel bad. I want him to make me feel good. Maybe thats irrational. Hesays hes just trying to help me be a better person?
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The person who tells you that they are saying hurtful things to "help you be a better person" is a bit controlling. You feel what you feel, nobody can tell you it's wrong.
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He isnt trying to make you a better person - he is trying to change you. My guy is always right and we argue alot because of it. His excuse is simply that he is always right - and I think he actually believes it. It is extremely frustrating!
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He's trying to control you. Maybe HE needs to help himself become a "better person" and stop trying to make you feel you are "wrong". Disconnect from him--why be around someone that makes you feel bad about yourself? Life is hard enough without that kind of negativity bringing you down.
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will i say u r wat u r,i got a frind thet do dat 2 me to some times but i dont rely care,am not feling bad, if am rong i try 2 chang but if not i will just sty da same careless of wat he say(he call me argint 4 dat but if am argent just 4 standing 4 my openun den I Am),just ignor him/her and do wat u like,like i olwes say (it's a free world).just remimber how dos not like u 4 wat u r dos not deserv ur love,so just ignor him :).I hop my answer was good enof 4 u and plz feel free 2 ask any other Qz and i will gladli try my best to answer if i find ur Qz dat is,I am the frindli-Kakashi
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The truth without love is cruel! Tell him that along with all his criticisms and blunt opinions, you need a little encouragement too.
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If u want really make him feel good, then please listen to him, observe carefully and understand him completely. Often difference of opinion will leads to separation
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