I'm 18 yrs old, outgoing guy who loves women. I was in a car accident that left me with a lot of facial scars. How am i supposed to start dating women when i wouldnt even date myself?
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Women like outgoing, nice, and funny men. If you have a likable personality you should be OK. It may take a while but the first thing you have to do is accept yourself and your new scars. The only women who count are the ones who like you for the whole YOU, not just the way you look. Unless of course you just want the superficial, flighty women. If that is the case I think money is the only thing that can speak in that situation XD
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My heart goes out to you for all that you have suffered. There is someone out there who will love your for who you are and she will be able to see past your scars. Just be yourself and she will find you!
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You have to love you before anyone else will. Just be who you are, and to the right person it will not matter.
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I suppose a plastic surgeon was not available to sew you back up... that is too bad. Things would be far worse if you were female. Women are valued on their beauty it seems. As long as you can walk, function and have sex, you will get a woman.
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Attitude and personality are so much more important than a pretty face. Have confidence in yourself and you will be fine. A friend of mine who was really outgoing lost his leg in a motorcycle accident. After he recovered, it was as if nothing was wrong. There were many girls who wanted to date him. Don't underestimate the maturity of others to look past the superficial.
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I wouldnt worry so much about my looks, a good woman, will not even notice them, they notice your personality, how you treat people, if you are respectful, honest and kind. I personally think scars are sexy, each one tells a story.
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women are far less concerned with beauty than men... otherwise we would have gone extinct because all women would be lesbians. just make sure you make up for your lack of beauty. trust me, what you lost was only in the innitial attraction and was more than compensated for by the curiosity about the scars... don't be sensitive about them or embaressed, be confident.
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That's hard, but you're going to have to accept yourself before you can expect anybody else to. That's gotta be tough though...I feel bad talkin to girls even if I have a zit on my face.
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Learn to love yourself first, work onyour self-esteem. And if youre an outgoing loveable guy (something that tends to be very attractive for women), I assure you, you will find the right girl. The right women, as I believe someone else has said, will not judge you by your appearance alone but by character. Besides, once someone is attracted to someone, regarless of wether they foudn them attractive before, they seem like the most beautiful person in their eyes. Thats love right? So all you'll have to do is find the right women, something that you probably already wanted to find.
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Women are more concerned about personality and character. A man who walks confidently will always catch a woman's eye. A smile is always an attention getter. Lear to relax and be yourself, and I bet you will do just fine.
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