For those with a drama free life, how do you do it? I want to release the drama from my life, need pointers.
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The Fool
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I have adopted the belief that the universe is unfolding as it should, and simply take things as they come. simple as that.
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I tend to separate myself from people, but that's not a solution I recommend.
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The best advice that I can give you or anyone else is that no matter what you do, if you interact with any person ever in your life, there will be drama eventually. It's not so bad once you realize there is nothing you can do about it.
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This is how I do it.
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When drama occurs around you, do not become part of it. When it is directed to you, walk away, or simply say, "I won't play that game". Listening goes a long way. Some people just need to vent. Even if they claim it's something you said or did, you know it's just their own need to project their own problems off on you, so you can sympathize with their plight, and not become part of it. For a lot more information on how to develop your Power of Ignore, see this: http://www.ehow.com/Search.aspx?s=+ignore&Options=0
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I am not completely drama free because I think it's a disease that needs to be continuously treated, or at least immunized against. Tips include: 1. People who love drama understand security, need, and love from the drama - not from you. Distance yourself from them. 2. Find your sense of self in quiet truths that don't need to be blabbed to the world. Talk less. Read more. Listen. Think. Don't put so much energy into throwing words around. Find a place that is quiet and still within you. 3. Do not get involved in online drama. It is easy to forget sometimes that cowards and egoists can post all sorts of garbage on the Internet. Like real life, it is best to move on to the next thing and get back to the type of quality that you wish to attract. 4. Be honest. Communicate. Where you have drama in your life, release this affirmation. Believe it in your core. Put it into practice with every action. Good luck :)
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Wait until you are married to have sex. Stay married to the person you promised all those things to in the wedding ceremony. Obey the laws and don't do illegal things. Don't have any children. Don't have any close friends. Mind your own business and be a good neighbor. Have limited contact with your crazy relatives.
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Choose not to participate. No arguing. No vindication. Always take the high road. I live a drama free life and that's how.
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I did it by moving to the country with a quiet peaceful (boring, lol) man, not having kids, and by having a long long steep bad driveway that no one wants to come down.
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I would suggest taking a break from people and learn more about yourself and learn to listen/understand/accept who you are. Know what is really important in your life and focus on how you can improve on that part of your life or yourself. Once you feel completely sure of yourself and know what is important in life, you may be able to deal with drama better. It's not so much the drama that surrounds you, it's how you deal/process it.
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