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  • hang out...ya never know what will happen. but just to be safe i forewarn u if he only wants to be friends and u want more dont torture yourself by being around him
  • It sounds as if he wants to keep his options open, if you hope on winning him back don't do it, make him miss you .
  • sounds like you all just need some space but that he still wants to make things work.
  • Dont hang out with him. Dont call him. Dont let him just HANG OUT with you after YOU had to move out.
  • well to tell u the truth....if u love him u can still keep trying but if u dont feel anything anymore then just move on and find somebody else.
  • If you have anything to do with him from this point, you join the AB female door matt club.
  • I dont think thats a very good idea if you still have feelings for him. and his are not going to change. You need to be completely moved on before you even think about hanging out. Might take some time. Goodluck.
  • You take it day by day. He probably just wanted his space. There's nothing wrong with that. With distance between you both, you'll see each other differently and probably get along much better.
  • Re-focus and you will see
  • &lt;<Hugs>> I would definatly still move out. Seems like things are going better between you two because there isnt the pressure and tension of a relationship any more. Was it a major fight or a minor one that made him end it? You have to let him know that he cant just break up and get back with you over and over, and that he cant play with your feelings. Hanging out still sounds like he wants to still have the benefits, just the benefits. A mans perfect world right- get her in bed then send her home. This could be what hes after- is that what you want? Be prepared to tell him your not going to lower yourself and become his bootycall- your worth more than that especially after two years. But moving out is a good thing, it gives both of you time apart to think, to feel, but if your still hanging out, then this move out wont have its full effect or any at all. If I were you I would take control of the situation(women are better thinkers anyways)I would tell him how much he hurt you and now you two need this time apart... dont see him or call him for at least a month. Tell him if after this time if he wants to discuss the relationship your willing to listen. Otherwise your not a bootycall. This month apart will give him plenty of time to see his life without you. If he doesnt want to talk about it after a month then so be it- theres your answer and now you know what kinda guy he is. After the month is up, lets say 3 months down the line he wants you back, tell him if your free you'll consider it, after much extensive talking. Dont let a man run your life sweetie :) Be strong
  • Take your time and move out and focus on your future! There are better things up ahead...
  • Usually backwards is never a good direction to take in life or love.If your relationship is so volitile that you need to move out after a fight.I don't ever see you both moving in a forward direction.You deserve to be w/ someone who treats you lovingly & vice versa especially in the face of difficulties.
  • What happens now...the same cycle over and over again until one of you decides to get off the merry-go-round for good. Those first few years are the honeymoon stage. It's the best that it gets.
  • you take it one day at a time and make sure you communicate, its everything. Relationships take work but are worth it. Plan some simple dates. Have fun with each other. Its obvious that you two care for each other. :)
  • You take it one day at a time. You two probably just needed space. No one can truly predict what will happen. Maybe you'll grow apart and start dating others or maybe, without the stress of being together, you will grow closer again and this time learn how to better work together so there aren't as many fights. Good luck. =)
  • it has happened to others....I had a friend go through the same thing...and they seem to just need a break and live apart and are dating...but if you to can't live together that how can you get married one day....is that in your goals...maybe you both just need to mature and later you will be able to live together peacefully.....do you love him...do you believe he loves you....if you both love each other it is worth a shot.

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