Would you leave every thing behind to escape the pain? reason for question in answer..
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Uncle Lizard
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Many months ago i walked away from my family and the woman i love.. I was a mess and i was dragging my family down with me.. Now my ex has found someone new and i can't blame her. I have finally sorted my life out and would love nothing more than to make things right again but this will never happen.. She seems to want this new guy to play happy families.. I have today had 2 offers of work and to live in other countries the first is in oz with my uncle the other in gibraltar working for a building firm.. To take these jobs means leaving my family my son and the woman i love is it really worth it??
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NEVER leave your children.
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I wouldnt do it bc a job isnt worth leaving family behind even if you did break up. You wouldnt be able to see your son again except occasionally. think how that would make you feel and make the desicion thats best for you.
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I personally? No. I don't run away from things. I stay and face them and either slog through/resolve or come to terms with it. Running away would never solve anything for me. Escaping pain? Well, if you caused it then you need to deal with it, 'else you will never be free of it. If it was caused by another, you need to let it go and move on. That doesn't mean you have to move away. As for leaving my child? No..never. He is now 42. He lives elsewhere and has a wonderful life. I would die before I would have left him..pain or no pain.
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First of all it is possible for you to have a relationship with your son even if you live in another country. It may cost you and you won't be able to see him as often as you like. But there are regular daily phone calls and web cams that could make up some for that., Second if the woman you love has truly moved on,you can't sit around hoping ahe'll change her mind. You would waste your life for that and possibly become bitter, and that isn't something you want your son to learn from you. It comes down to what do you think is best for your son first and you second. Your ex can take care of herself.
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Ew! Thats a tough one! If you have never reached a level of pain to even ask, it would certainly be hard to give an empathetical answer. That is one of those things that one has to feel to know the depth...I guess I am saying all this as im thinking of an answer. No, I couldnt leave everything behind, that would be selfish of me. As bad as pain hurts, if you ever make it to the other side, there is so much you have learned!! To run from it, only buys you a little time, until its faced, dealt with, accepted & then be thankful for whatever it is that you were able to stand up once again, in the name of pain! Its well worth the battle to withstand the pain...I know.
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Don't have much to leave behind, so yes.
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