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by jblove on September 22nd, 2008

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Im 19 male and I sometimes have fantasis about certain types of men,now I have never been with one and I always seen my future with a women and having kids. Never dated a man only women. would you say that I was gay just for that. or is it just a phase.

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  • by Polar Aurorae on September 22nd, 2008

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    Most of my friends are going through something like that. I think a lot of teenagers experience feelings of confusion regarding their sexuality. It may pass. If it doesn't, try not to harbor feelings of guilt or regret.

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  • by Inquisitive minds want to know... on September 22nd, 2008

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    its pretty natural to be curious....I wouldn't worry about it

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  • by Bohemian is back on March 3rd, 2012

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    I think teenagers fantasize about the bodies that they are most familiar with which is their own. You know all of the sensations that your body feels, so imagining it with someone of the same sex could be considered usual. I would not say you were gay just for imagining these things. But time and experience will lead you along the most natural path for you. Whatever you do, don't beat yourself up about it. Just enjoy your life and your choices.

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  • by DA BEN DAN yanggui zi on March 2nd, 2012

    DA BEN DAN yanggui zi

    you are probably gay or bi at least, learn to accept that sexuality is just a scale....from purely heterosexual to purely homosexual.....most people fall in between somewhere...I have had sexual relations with women...but now only with men. Why? Because they take me to somewhere I have never been before:)

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  • by xo.Gannicus.xo on March 7th, 2011

    xo.Gannicus.xo

    Well, you won't know unless you find out. I mean, there's nothing wrong with being bi. If you actually enjoyed hooking up with guys, yet find yourself only fulfilled with a women (in terms of a relationship) seems like that could be a lot of fun! Maybe have a threesome? Anyway, I think you won't know unless you find out, and you would rather find out than just wonder your whole life what it would have been like to explore! Exploring can be fun =]

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  • by pollynine on April 28th, 2010

    pollynine

    It's ok to have fantasies about men. Whatever you might be though, bi, gay, or straight, be proud to be so. It's normal though, so don't worry about it too much.

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