What could prove that my bf is not cheating on me? I have little reason to think he is, but I'm so paranoid. What could put my mind at ease?
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You could hire an investigator. You could work on your insecurities.
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you could ask him and see how he reacts to the question. usually liers arent good at lying
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Dont say anything to him just try to find out
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when he gets home go right to him and kiss him to welcome him home and sniff for Un-Authorized scents when your doing it. then question it right there.
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i think you just need to hink about this alone. It seems you dont want to confront him on this as you stated "i have little reason to think he is, but i'm so paranoid." you need to sit and think WHY he would have any thought in his mind to consider cheating..do you fight alot, has something changed, do you air out your problems, is he stressed at work or in another way? all these factors plus countless others make a HUGE difference in most relationships.
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dont you have parents?
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Trust is the only answer. Either you trust him, or you don't.
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If you are paranoid you are not trusting him. There is nothing you can do except talk to him and tell him how you feel. Trust takes time.
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You can't prove a negative. Make a choice. Choose to stay with him and trust him until/unless there is a REASON not to; OR let him go. You're torturing both of you with this unfounded paranoia. You have every right to do that to yourself, but you have absolutely NO right to do that to your boyfriend (or anyone else). When you choose a partner, base your choice on that person's CHARACTER. Then you don't have these jealousies and paranoia.
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is there any unexplainable missed time? if not then forget your paranois NOW. if so, investigate that... it will probably turn out to be nothing still. do not let emotions get the better of you. your paranoia will drive him away. many women from the internet have claimed to have had sex with me... my wife asked me about them and trusted my answer. she did not question until she had evidenceto ask without cause would be insulting.
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