well did you bring it up at the cafe or where ever you were? talk to him about it..i mean if he met with you then he must still have some feelings for you

He probably wants to see how you look and if your still in love with him..I suggest leave and let it be he left you, he got a new cookie on the side now that cookie left him so he wants to crawl back to you only to do it again..

we were living together in June had been for two years. He was talking about us getting engaged soon. He went on his job, which he goes away from home for three months in the summer. He works in a industry where drugs is rife. He said the stress and life in general he started doing some drugs. That's where it fell apart, he went awol a couple of nights seperate times, when he was at home. So I said he needed to move out to sort his life out. anyway I moved out but I kept telling him I loved him so much and didn't want to leave. I left he said he still wanting to be good friends but needed a break to sort himself out. He came round for a meal and things were comfortable between us and he stayed over. Things became comfortable and we had sex about three times. I told how shit my life was, no flat, lost my job and I love him. Then next day he went off on another job and I hardly heard from him. He's now back in reality, about to move out of the flat we lived in together. His life is falling apart, he now feeling the effects of whats happened. We bumped into eachother and he said he would ring, which he did an hour later. Wanted to know where I was going and would I like to meet for coffee. We did, I was running fashionably late and jokeingly he asked if I had a new fella. I said no. We met for a couple of hours, he told me how crazy and rubbish his life is, his self esteem seems low. Then later that night i text him to say I would say a prayer for him, becuase he is in a mess. He rang me and said ring me anytime you like, and he would like to keep ringing me. He mentioned that he had wanted to ring me the night before when he was lonely in the flat and doing drugs. I know hes in a mess right now but two months ago and for a long time we were brilliant. Never lived with a partner before before and loved it, and never been with someone so long before. Sorry for the long story, need your advice. about a year ago he had a problem with drugs and kicked it until he had to go away in june again, said he finds it hard to say no to it. I am still desperately in love with him and miss him.

Well before he met me I know he hadn't had a relationship for a long time. A friend told me who knows says he's not been with anyone else. Oh I forgot to mention the other day whilst getting quite drunk with friends he tried to get his friends to hit him. He has a real self esteem issue. I know I stick up for him. I do want poeples honest advice.