At work, I am aggressive and authoritative. Some have even nicknamed me "The Shark" (I'm an auditor). In the bedroom, however, although I can be in charge there too, I LOVE being 'taken' and forced to deep throat a cock or do as my master commands. I am not into pain, but humiliation is never a problem.

I am in charge of over 100 people at work. Everyone always looks to me to make decisions and have all of the answers. I love my job, but it does get monotonous. I absolutely look at being sexually sumbissive as a realease from all of that, having a woman tell me (not ask me) what she is going to do to me or making me comply with her orders. Mostly, I would love to have a woman just tak me by surprise and do whatever she is going to do to me.

I'm normally the sub, but in vanilla I'm normally domaniant.

i am a newly enslaved online sub...online or when i see my Master's avatar on red light center i have to type /kneel. but in real life unless im with my friends or someone i know really well...i am pretty submissive

I consider myself to be generally in charge in my vanilla life. I work a full-time job as a researcher and often deal with time restraints and (sometimes) unwanted responsibilities. I love my job and what I do for a living, and I love how it allows me to have a balance in my life. I, as practically as possible, live my life as a 24/7 slave. Even though I am away from Mistress during the day, I have a thin slave collar (its more like a necklace) and a butt-plug harness locked on. My Mistress keeps me permanently plugged- even to work to sleep. (I am allowed 2-3 short toilet breaks per day- before/after work usually) Whenever I leave the home, Mistress usually locks a chastity belt on for good measure. I realize it sounds as if I bring the bedroom/dungeon with me to work! =P After accepting a collar and submitting myself to Her, I was promised to be able to pursue my other passions in life through work. At the office, I'm that nerdy guy who works diligently and minds his own business. Yet am more than willing to take control, and handle a situation at any time. In fact, enslavement has improved my vanilla relations. At a personal level with my co-workers, I have become a much more pleasant person to be around; I make small-talk, lead discussions, among other things. I strive to lead and do my best at work as an extension of being the property of my Mistress. I love how Mistress has found ways to continually remind me of my enslavement. My favorite part is that not a single person at the office knows about my lifestyle! Its kinda like my secret double-life I live. While overwhelmingly busy during the day, I have always enjoyed returning home to please my Mistress and just.... let go.... everything seems to melt away- stress, anxiety, depression, etc. I am not very open about my lifestyle with my family, however, whenever I do visit them, I am not without my reminders...