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  • Its hard I know, sometimes, no matter how hard we try and for no reason we can see, love just dies :-(
  • I would say not to go back with him. A simple thing like emotional issues should not get you to break up. If anything he needs to be able to work things out with you if he wants to have an actual relationship. And it's not you, if anything it's probably something else that's going on putting stress or depressing him. I would just talk to him though. Don't go back out. I think you should just stay friends, and next time find a guy who really will be there for you through thick and thin. :D Good luck!!
  • Sweetheart, he has emotional problems. That means that his life is a mess, more than likely. Some poeple cannot help but dragging other people down with them and we get lost in the quagmire. It doesn't mean they aren't good people; it simply means that it is better to love them from a distance.
  • You say you're lost and you have every reason to be. Give him some space. Sounds like he still wants a relationship with taking it slow. Don't be persistent. Let him try to resolve things. I don't believe you can stop loving someone. He still loves you but maybe isnt ready for the commitment that you want.
  • I dont think Love can just stop either. My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and i cant accept that either... how u can suddenly stop caring about someone who u loved for soo long. If you love him take it slow and make it work. Do what will ever make you happy. Hopefully it will work out for both of us xx
  • if i had my time again and was younger i would run from all guys i have had in your situation, get out and enjoy yourself, too much emotional in your situation, sounds like ur not happy dealing with does he love me syndrome, good luck.
  • well this actually depends on how intense the emotional issues are - first and foremost ,if already knew that your an emotional person before you two hooked up then hes just being an insensitive asshole and being extremely selfish to your needs - if this emotional state is being caused by something a doctor diagnosed and you take medication - that can tricky- if its intense enough that you seem like your hot one minute and cold the next then you have to agree that its hard to know who your loving and when your loving - this calls for patience , time and understanding - it it turns out that hes just bein an asshole ........drop his sorry ass like a sack of potatoes !
  • men takes long time to commit.....he might have been very attentive and loving to you but in his mind you were still casual to him....perhaps you started being a bit pushy, needy? Men like independence in women...It is known that once a woman appears clingy and pushy, men see red light! You appear too much work to them.....so just take it easy, find a life for yourself without involving him, i mean activities and have fun. And dont tell him u have changed....he will notice the changes if he is around you ....if he is seeing someone else...then its time for u to move on....dont call him or pester him, this will only push him further away! Who knows he might notice the changes in you and come back....oh and dont try to make him jealous, Just be yourself and have fun.
  • That's just how it is. Guys are particularly good at turning off the switch if they want to. They have been raised to control their emotions. We haven't.
  • Gee you sound clingy! No wonder he needs some space!
  • Some boys can handel our emotional issues you should try things out again
  • Emotional issues can't be resolved with logic and intellegence.you can't even avoid them. sometimes life wants you to live with the emotional ambiguities for a while just to make you a deeper person. I'd advice you , not to jump to any conclusion because it was the love that you beleived in at some point in time. Just be numb to all the negitives and respond to every singal positive reason that reminds you of your true love. "The only love that last the longest is the love that is nver returned."

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