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Although right now you may feel that you would rather hear the truth, in reality all women will feel more comfortable around a man who "loves them for who they are". Perhaps he's just trying to meet those standards? :)
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He's probably as compassionate, sweet, and caring as you are. In which case, he really means it and doesn't want you to deny yourself anything when he sees you as absolutely beautiful as you are. Of course, if you really want to lose some weight, you'll have to let him know - but sounds like he does it out of love :)
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Some guys like being married to larger women because there is a lesser chance of them straying. By you losing some weight, he might take that as a sign that you are gearing up to find someone else. Getting in shape is a life choice. It's not only healthy for your body but also your entire well-being. He should respect that. Ask him not to buy that fatty food. Set the example by buying more fruits and vegetables. Eat lots of bran and drink alot of water. Thats the secret to losing weight that not many people seem to grasp. The way I look at it is that the race is never over.
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He enjoys controlling you.
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probably because he likes you , you are so lucky , i am telling you , thounsands of gitls wish their men will like them as they are !!! :)
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I agree with prunesquallor and alfugazi, he seems insecure and I suspect he is trying to control your weight in order to keep you from looking around.
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Maybe he's insecure or maybe he's clueless. You should tell him to manifest his love in other ways though.
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You don't have to eat them at a rate faster than is healthy. Eat some of them each day but stay under the number of calories you are burning and you will be just fine. I eat over a half pound of chocolate per day and I am not fat.
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Because he loves you and what you perceive as extra weight he doesn't even notice because he loves YOU! Just relax & enjoy it.
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Because he does love you the way you are but maybe he should know that being that little bit over weight is damaging your self esteem and that you are loosing the weight for you, not for anyone else. Hopefully he will understand and keep his biscuts to him self =]
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Because he's insecure and can't deal with the fact that if you lost weight, you might leave him. Resist!
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He does it because he loves you but you have to stick to what you want. If you want to lose weight you need to emphasize the point to him.
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I'm thinking is he is trying to pamper you and he doesn't know how. I never wear jewelry, yet one of the few presents my Hubby has ever surprised me with was a piece of jewelry he saw on a business trip. Maybe you could increase the amount of exercise you are doing to help make up for the extra calories. Hubby and I have started taking the dog for a walk every day when he gets home from work (except when the outside temp is over 100 degrees).
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He knows what you like. Eat half of one and put the rest away for another day. Don't obsess about being alightly overweight, worry if you are obese.
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He may be reinforcing the fact that he loves you because you're you. Or maybe it's because he knows you enjoy these foods (who doesn't like chocolate?) and wants to see you happy. Or maybe because he likes them too and is looking for you to share them with him. Or maybe he's trying to tell you that he doesn't want you to end up too skinny.
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