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Relationships are all about communication. Each of us is entitled to our own opinion. Frequently we like to share opinions. This doesn't mean we have to agree, only that we might be willing to share. If the discussion gets to the point where one feels it is necessary to "force" an opinion on the other, the interchange becomes heated and a waste of time. We don't have to agree for me to respect you. That said, arguments are frequently about things that are not being said, not about what is being said. If I'm angry with you, I can find a way to argue with you about anything you say. So explore why one feels so strongly about a subject which usually is unimportant to the relationship.
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well it depends on what the argument is about. 1) If its just a difference of opinion (politics, abortion, religion, etc), its b/c that person is threatened. People put a lot of their ego in their opinions. When you disagree with their opinion, its like you are disagreeing with who they are as a person. For example, if you were a feminist and someone disagreed with you on women's rights, then you take it as a personal attack b/c you see being a feminist as part of your ego, part of who you are. 2) If there is an argument about something that affects you, then you really cannot just agree to disagree. For example, i dont want your muddy shoes in the house, and you dont want to take off your shoes before you come in. This is something that affects me and you (because my carpets get dirty or your shoes have to come off), so you cannot really agree to disagree in a situation where both people are affected by it. that's sort of how i see it... :-)
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