Do you think opposites can actually get along?
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wanttolearn
ANSWERS: 4
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yes I do I know more then 1 married couple who have or had been married many years that are/was like that
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okay here's the deal, i am loud, i like my friends around, we have a few every once in a while.i have my daughter, grandson and a roommate living with me (which he knew ahead of time). when we met it was in the guard. (i'm sorry I feel guilty about this...) he left his wife (they filed for divorce) and moved in with me and started going to church, which is great, but he's become a different person. It seems he dropped his obsession of the military for an obsession of the church (i dont attend with him) although I am a christian. He dropped a bomb on me after church sunday and said he has to move out to "do it right." He's sinning. No discussion with me and already found a place. he's out tomorrow and i'm wondering if i'm being played for a sap. he bought me a diamond ring but i don't feel right wearing it anymore. He told me that one thing he is absolutely sure of is that he truly loves me. I feel so rejected and hurt after starting off having a wonderful, intimate (yes we had sex up until he started church). Should i give him his ring back?
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thank you christiankathryn. i told him in the beginning that it should have been done the way he wants to do it now. he packed his stuff secretly, left a LETTER for his wife, no discussion and left his kids. He claims he used to be a pastor but won't tell me why he left, though he did say it devistated his family. I just don't trust him. I think I should go with my gut. he says over and over he's going to marry me, he wants me as his wife but how can you trust in a situation like this. when i told him i wanted to give him the ring back he said no, don't you take that ring off, i'm marrying you but i want to court you first! duh. the damage is already done. thank you again. I have made up my mind.
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My wife and I are polar opposites and we have a decent marriage.
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