What do you do if you are in love with the man you are cheating with but he won't leave his wife?
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You face reality and get out of the situation immediately. Why would you want a man who'd cheat on his wife? You don't think he'd do the same thing to you? You're in love with a person with no morals, ethics or sense of commitment. And the icing on the cake is that you're not even important enough for him to leave his wife! Why do you think so little of yourself? Another thing you might want to do is get some counseling so you can answer that question and develop some self esteem.
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stop fooling yourself, admit the truth, he is using you (and you are in the wrong to show such blatant disrespect for a fellow woman)
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um leave him alone. he is married!!! man....i just don't get it.
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Easy to judge someone when you're not in their shoes. You love the man and thats okay but is there a reason he won't leave his wife, young children etc. if not then it may be time to walk away.
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You must have known this was a probability when you got into the situation. Often married men will not leave their partners for the bit on the side. What you do is cope with it or move onto someone who is available.
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You leave him alone and move on. Why would you want to give your heart to a cheater anyway?
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You COULD leave him alone - but then you'd be missing out on a perfect murder-suicide opportunity.
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Find someone who can dedicate their time to you. Besides, even if he does leave his wife for you, what's to keep him from cheating on you with someone else down the line?
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If I were you I'd be ashamed for myself, not so much for messing with someone who is married (though you probably should be) but more for being silly enough to think that the guy would leave his wife for you. Most of these married cheaters have homes and investments and don't plan on leaving their wives, they just want a little action on the side. Even if that weren't the case though you should have more respect for yourself and wonder what you would really get out of a relationship founded in lies and cheating...if he did it to her what makes you think he won't do it to you too?
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