I am an attractive british born Indian guy 5'11, and slim and would love to go out with a white girl as it is my preference. Only problem is I do not get the opportunity to meet people. where do I begin. And do white women find Indian guys attractive?

I am an Indian guy dating an American girl for 8 months now. It has been nothing but fantastic. I don't think being an Indian changed the fact that I was a man and she was a woman and the universal law holds true in every case (opposites attract). I suggest, you get the mental block of "race" and/or "ethnicity" out of the window and be yourself and as you indicated "...do not get the oppertunity to meet people", you need to go to some social places. Are you shy? reserved in nature? Verbal skills? Your Q doesn't indicate that you have communication problems. Believe in yourself and am sure you'd get along with someone who likes being with you. All the best.

Don't despair, as I have found, most places around the world, in a non arranged situation, people do find one another.

Meeting people isn't a difficult thing really, as we could meet hundreds a day if we put ourselves out there to do so, it's more our doing that then the opportunity of the meeting someone that makes the difference being successful. Where might one meet another in India, or England? Just because you might not be there doesn't mean that where you are now is that much different, and can't allow you to be comfortable in any environment to pursue an interest.

As far as it goes to your inquiry about white women and Indian men, I guess all I have to say is that women like men for qualities and not so much concerned where you might be from, unless that was a recient release from jail! Seriously, just be confident in who you are, and maybe carry yourself a bit aloof, but remain centered in to what you want, and always be gracious unto how one obtains it, and most of all, never be someone you are not.

Those things I have found are the qualities that a woman want's to be around, and not so much are the concern unto that which you expressed. Good luck, and ladies, we have a bachelor behind door number one? Be well, and peace!

I'm caucasian, and I find Indian guys VERY hot. I think you will do just fine. I know (from work, etc) many Indian guys with US girlfriends and wives. (I'm American.)

In the end, it isn't what is on the outside that counts, but what is INSIDE. Good luck!

I dont think it is your race so much as your actions. If you want to meet white women, go where white women go. Make polite conversation, be yourself, and give her respect and dont be pushy. Dont get discouraged if the first one doesnt work out. There are many to choose from. But one thing is for sure, it is not likely that a woman is going to approach you. It does happen, but chances are slim, you need to go after it,,,, GO, turn your computer off right now and go find you a woman,, Go on, go!!

Why don't you go and find a nice Indian girl?

I've always heard about how some Indian guys are racist and like to kiss up to white people. Grow up and start looking for girls that you get along with rather than looking for some stupid white girl.

Hmmm, first of all, you will find love when you least expect it, when you go look for it, sometimes you end up settleing for second best. By the sounds of it, you will have no problem landing someone. I am part indian, but white as a ghost lol, but there are alot of women out there, that are very attracted to Indian guys (me included, I am married, but not blind to my taste). I wish you the best of luck!! OH, please don't try to find one in a bar, if they are not alcoholics, they may see you differently under the influence, and it would just be nice to know that someone fell for you without alcohol being involved.

u begin by being open. if u see an attrive women go up to her and start talking. see where it goes. i personally find tall tan built dark haried men attractive but thats me. others might find u as attractive. take a chance, u have nothing to loose only to gain!!

Oh. My. God.

YES!!!!!!

Now, keep in mind, I am taken, so this is purely advice and by no means an offer. Disclaimer aside- I am not a ditzy, boy-crazy chick. I am educated, informed and respect my body. But I have all I can do to control myself around Indian guys! Those huge, intense brown eyes you all seem to have make my underpants melt *eeep*

The two Indian guys I have been with were smart, funny, considerate and sexy as hell. I'd never been so intensely attracted to anyone, the last one in particular. Even in general, I find myself getting pretty flushed and giddy when I am talking to an Indian guy. My only complaint would be that many Indian guys seems to be inhibited and self-conscious about stuff that most girls couldn't care less about. For instance, one thought he was too hairy (which I actually liked.) The other would get jumpy when I kissed his body because he was worried he smelled bad (I loved how he smelled.) So just be confident! Many of my female friends are exactly like me in this way!

i find Indian guys very attractive, though i know race shouldn't matter

Why does race have to have anything to do with it? If your just looking for flings i could see it but what about love? Isnt love suppost to be blind you should look more for personality rather than race...

I am a white girl and I am absolutelly in love with my indian boyfriend. He didn't do any magic on me, we just fell in love.... naturally.

You can't generalize something like that. Some women do and some don't. I think most people in general don't care about race - they're looking for someone with whom they can connect. I would suggest taking a night class in something that interests you. You may very well meet someone in the class and you would already have something in common.

Is that you Sanjaya?

I don't think it's so much about where you're from as it is about who you are doll. lol

Honestly, I'm a white female, and I find Indian men very attractive. You're not going to have any trouble. Just make yourself available for parties or other social events out with friends and I'm sure that love will find you.

Sorry you confused me, which part is correct are you attractive or Indian?

Yes, I have been dating a Indian guy for almost 2 years....I love Indian guys.... :) They are so nice and treat women wayyyyy better than American guys.

I would think there are some white women out there who find Indian men attractive. I'm an American white woman of 49 years, and both my ex-husbands and one fiancee were of Indian background (however, I must say both spoke English, like you). I would love to meet some professional Indian men in my age group - so I'm sure you'll find an attractive woman to date soon. I have some friends in UK who are always inviting me back (my last visit was ten years ago!) so if you know of any single men in MY age group, let me know! DeeDee

Yes some white ladies do find Indian men attractive. Even they find other Asians attractive like Pakistanis, BAngladeshis, etc. So good luck!

I can't speak for every white woman alive, but I find Indian men to be quite attractive.
And a british accent...OMG
Haha, just go somewhere you enjoy to spend time, that way you can find a woman with comman interests.

Hi I have the same problem as I am a Guyanese male, 29 and I grew up primarily white people e.g. white females and have been basically attracted to while females and light skin black females and latin females. The thing is that when I am in bars/clubs I tend not to get any good looks when I try to p/u white women e.g. some slutty white girl will be grinding every white guy on the floor but when I try she deny's me. So I am not sure what the problem is since there were very few brown men at my highschool and they all dated white females as well.

Hi everyone,
I'm indian 6.1 atheletic and live in the midlands UK. In my experience most women (especially here in the midlands) treat indian men (including me) like we are either fresh off the boat or criminal types on first meeting,(that includes indian women towards indian men), until they realise that i was born here, dont have an accent, or a chip on my shoulder, and that i have a sharp wit and show a little assertivness, then suddenly THEY START FLIRTING!(it can some times throw me when i,m not expecting it!) Never be afraid to "BE A MAN" around women,(i dont mean a brute, just confident-but not too confident, just relax like you would around an old friend,and never appear desperate or needy, shy is fine, just dont clam up, and dont be afraid to make a fool of yourself aslong as you keep it funny and never get vex! Do it has much as you can and it'll become second nature.

PS the only women who calls me attractive is my mum! and i've had some gorgeous girls on my arm,(white,Black and Brown.) just exude a cool calm serenity.

I'm not a female so I won't comment on the attraction thing, but I just wanna say that from what I saw when I travelled through India, the country was literally bursting at the seams with beautiful people. You have no worries!!

i have tons of white girl friends and they like indian guys, personally me being partly of indian descent i find them hot, but im talking rahul khanna or jimi mistry. :D
of course man, give it a try. you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

I think attractiveness has more to do with what is on the inside rather than the outside, obviously different people have different ideas of what attractiveness is, not all white girls will find Indian guys attractive, just like not all Indian guys find white girls attractive.
I live in the Northwest of the UK in a town which is very ethnically diverse, and, despite what you may hear from the media, on the whole everyone gets on and mixes pretty well. I would have no problem going out with an Asian guy (I am white), but I think sometimes white girls can have reservations, especially with a serious relationship, because religion can cause problems. Also, I think Asian parents are a lot stricter with their children when it comes to mixed marriages and relationships and white girls are aware that they may not be accepted. Of course, I am speaking about serious relationships, but if you just wanted to meet girls for dating, have you thought about enrolling on night school classes, then there are the obvious places like pubs and clubs. Join a gym, or you could try a dating agency or internet dating or even singles nights at supermarkets. Good luck.

Try joining a health club, taking some classes that are more oriented to women, go to some interesting lectures, do some volunteer work and you will probably be busier than you can possibly imagine! I've seen women fight over an attractive man, no matter where he's from!

I think u should put up a pic!! lol. In all seriousness though, I don't think race should come into it. If you're an attractive guy, people will find you attractive. Just be confident in approaching women and you'll find the right girl!!!!! Best of luck!!

racist people SUCK !!!!!!!

money matters fa every gal.....

I'm black, what about me?

I find many types attractive. I think Indian men are great and I love Indian food and culture. If I was not taken I would go out with an Indian man in a hearbeat.

Of course white women are not picky they will go out with anyone just make sure you have a lot of money as this will go far for a beautiful blonde maybe less money for a not so pretty girl.

I am a white girl and I find Indian guys very attractive. My love of Indian men started with Kal Penn. I meet an Indian guy when he was my neighbor and fell in love with him. It is hard to understand his motives at times, maybe Indian guys are a little too reserved. I answered your question, now will you answer mine. What would make an Indian guy end things about 15 months all because of a few little things? Its so strange because I know he still loves me, but why would he just want to give up when things are not perfect and not give it another try?

"And do white women find Indian guys attractive?"
Let me answer this in three ways...yes, Yes, YES!
btw where do I find an Indian guy who isn't hampered down by cultural prejudices to marry within his own race?
Hugs and Kisses,
Whitey lol

I am in love with my Indian boyfriend, and I am white. I do NOT have a thing for Indian, it just the man that I love happened to be Indian. We are very happy together too.

I dont know where you would begin maybe the supermarket, Its weird but I always seem to meet new people there.

The right girl will be attracted to a man for the man himself not his nationality.

Can you tell your cousins to stop calling my phone? They keep talking about some online pharmacy but Im not Mr Burk and im not 56 years old. I think Im at a predicament, when you can sort that out I will give you some very effective dating advice, I promise.

Last question first: Well, I'm not completely white. I have a lot of Native American in me. You know, Columbus thought my ancestors were your ancestors. However, I'd like to comment: to me, a British-born Indian man... I'm assuming you have a British accent too? Yowwww-ZA! Never mind someone else's comment about Aladdin; that shows the mental level she's operating on. Actor Navin Chowdhry is the one who comes to my mind. Hothothothot.

http://www.myvillage.co.uk/pages/celebs-navinchowdhry.htm?domain=mynottinghill

Your other question isn't answered so easily. You might try an online dating service. Sorry I can't be more helpful.

I'm a white american girl and i love british guys... and indian guys!
You sound perfect :P

Talk to me :) maybe we can be friends :))).

Talk to me :) maybe we can be friends :))).

I feel white women prefer men from their own race, as women from any race would find men from their own race preferable. I am decent looking Indian man who is very attracted to white woman as well, but perhaps most white women only prefer white men. Thats why its confusing to approach white women, as many Indian men feel they might only like white men.

Best of the very best of luck to u mate, but Intersting thing is that I never met any so so white girl interested in indian guys Thingy :)

Talk to me :) maybe we can be friends :))).

White women DO find some Indian guys attractive. Speaking from experience, I was head over heels in love with an indian/pakistani guy. I met him accidentally and fell in love instantly. I don't really go out thinking "okay now lets look for some Indian guys". Love just happens. My Indian guy was something special. I fell in love with his personality first. He also looked gorgeous, tall, amazingly built, face to die for, personality to die for, he was funny, witty, intelligent etc etc. We were so in love for about 3-4 years, and now after the breakup I find myself thinking of him OFTEN. (and it has been more than a year since our break up) Thank God we agreed that neither one of us will try to get in touch with each other after the break up...otherwise, I think, if I had a chance to see him again I would probably tell him that I love him still...I hate this feeling.... :( So yeah, I personally can say that I find Indian guys attractive, but NOT because they're Indian but because the guy who is all that I ever wanted in a guy was Indian.

Hope you find your love and I bet you did since the your post dates back to 2006.
Cheers...
D

What's wrong with Indian women? I mean your Indian right? lol