I am an attractive british born Indian guy 5'11, and slim and would love to go out with a white girl as it is my preference. Only problem is I do not get the opportunity to meet people. where do I begin. And do white women find Indian guys attractive?
I am an Indian guy dating an American girl for 8 months now. It has been nothing but fantastic. I don't think being an Indian changed the fact that I was a man and she was a woman and the universal law holds true in every case (opposites attract). I suggest, you get the mental block of "race" and/or "ethnicity" out of the window and be yourself and as you indicated "...do not get the oppertunity to meet people", you need to go to some social places. Are you shy? reserved in nature? Verbal skills? Your Q doesn't indicate that you have communication problems. Believe in yourself and am sure you'd get along with someone who likes being with you. All the best.
Don't despair, as I have found, most places around the world, in a non arranged situation, people do find one another.
Meeting people isn't a difficult thing really, as we could meet hundreds a day if we put ourselves out there to do so, it's more our doing that then the opportunity of the meeting someone that makes the difference being successful. Where might one meet another in India, or England? Just because you might not be there doesn't mean that where you are now is that much different, and can't allow you to be comfortable in any environment to pursue an interest.
As far as it goes to your inquiry about white women and Indian men, I guess all I have to say is that women like men for qualities and not so much concerned where you might be from, unless that was a recient release from jail! Seriously, just be confident in who you are, and maybe carry yourself a bit aloof, but remain centered in to what you want, and always be gracious unto how one obtains it, and most of all, never be someone you are not.
Those things I have found are the qualities that a woman want's to be around, and not so much are the concern unto that which you expressed. Good luck, and ladies, we have a bachelor behind door number one? Be well, and peace!
I'm caucasian, and I find Indian guys VERY hot. I think you will do just fine. I know (from work, etc) many Indian guys with US girlfriends and wives. (I'm American.)
In the end, it isn't what is on the outside that counts, but what is INSIDE. Good luck!
freeking out american females. I just try to find come common activities-church-volunteering-politics- museum gounps-places were you know you're gong to find a bunch of them-and go for it, they'll love you. but get into small groups where you'll be one on only a few , if any, guys
You can't generalize something like that. Some women do and some don't. I think most people in general don't care about race - they're looking for someone with whom they can connect. I would suggest taking a night class in something that interests you. You may very well meet someone in the class and you would already have something in common.
Hmmm, first of all, you will find love when you least expect it, when you go look for it, sometimes you end up settleing for second best. By the sounds of it, you will have no problem landing someone. I am part indian, but white as a ghost lol, but there are alot of women out there, that are very attracted to Indian guys (me included, I am married, but not blind to my taste). I wish you the best of luck!! OH, please don't try to find one in a bar, if they are not alcoholics, they may see you differently under the influence, and it would just be nice to know that someone fell for you without alcohol being involved.
I dont think it is your race so much as your actions. If you want to meet white women, go where white women go. Make polite conversation, be yourself, and give her respect and dont be pushy. Dont get discouraged if the first one doesnt work out. There are many to choose from. But one thing is for sure, it is not likely that a woman is going to approach you. It does happen, but chances are slim, you need to go after it,,,, GO, turn your computer off right now and go find you a woman,, Go on, go!!
I don't think it's so much about where you're from as it is about who you are doll. lol
Honestly, I'm a white female, and I find Indian men very attractive. You're not going to have any trouble. Just make yourself available for parties or other social events out with friends and I'm sure that love will find you.
Thank you so much for your thoughts. What would you advise me on how to approach a girl who I really like and she works at the check out in a supermarket but I never have the courage or know how to go about asking her out? I dont want her to think I some weirdo! thanks :)
I think attractiveness has more to do with what is on the inside rather than the outside, obviously different people have different ideas of what attractiveness is, not all white girls will find Indian guys attractive, just like not all Indian guys find white girls attractive.
I live in the Northwest of the UK in a town which is very ethnically diverse, and, despite what you may hear from the media, on the whole everyone gets on and mixes pretty well. I would have no problem going out with an Asian guy (I am white), but I think sometimes white girls can have reservations, especially with a serious relationship, because religion can cause problems. Also, I think Asian parents are a lot stricter with their children when it comes to mixed marriages and relationships and white girls are aware that they may not be accepted. Of course, I am speaking about serious relationships, but if you just wanted to meet girls for dating, have you thought about enrolling on night school classes, then there are the obvious places like pubs and clubs. Join a gym, or you could try a dating agency or internet dating or even singles nights at supermarkets. Good luck.
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