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Drop subtle hints, and do it as often as you want, and they should get it eventually. Also, if they are hurting you and don't care or do care and do any way, they might have it coming . . .
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say " your hurting me"
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Just look them straight in the face and say " You are hurting me."And then wait for thier response. If they don't have one say "Fuck You!" and walk off.
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tell them you dont want to hurt them, but you want to be honest with them, then tell them the truth.:)
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I think if a friend or lover is hurting you then they are neither a friend nor should they be a lover. Friends and lovers don't hurt each other. They love and respect each other. Choose a moment, talk to them kindly and if they do not accept it they are not worth your friendship or your time. Good luck. I hope you have the desired outcome.
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Very carefully. Don't say "you hurt me when you" but "I feel hurt when..." They may have no idea that what they are doing or saying is hurtful, and the more you say "YOU do such and such", they will feel attacked.
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Nice question. I always whisper on the ear by telling: “ You know that sometimes I feel hurt when ….”, but it also depends to the person sensitivity and how logical is by accepting his defects.
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use other words except from 'hurt' you can say 'i don't like' 'its annoying' 'stop doing this'...........
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Tell them, specifically, what action is hurting you. And how it makes you feel. Instead of a blanket "you are hurting me", which implies that it is their whole being not a few actions. For example : "It feel ignored when you look away while I'm talking." This tells them the problem and how it makes you feel. It may still hurt their feelings to find out that their way of doing things is causing you pain. But frankly a little twinge gives them a better idea of what you are feeling and that isn't all bad.
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