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  • I am not married but I totally believe that once you take a spouse..his/her needs become first and foremost over your families. as does his/her happiness.
  • --If you let other people interfere with your relationship (family or friends) it will cause big problems. Your partner will feel "ganged up on" and will resent you & your family. --Your family (and friends) should respect your relationship and let you work out your own problems. (unless there is violence). --This is the person you want to spend the majority of your time with (maybe the rest of your life). By making each other the #1 priority, you are showing that you have respect and love for your partner. --By allowing your family to "run your life", you are indicating that you are not capable of doing it yourself. That doesn't mean to cut them out of the picture--you just need to draw the line. --This applies to your partner also.
  • My kids needs come first in my life.:)
  • Once you get married the husband/wife is the number one concern.Now if there is mutual respect then no one needs to suffer.I would never ask my husband to not go to his Mom and Dads house and he would never aske me not to go to my Dads house.Normally when your daughter gets married you get a new son,but not in my case.I am more over at my inlaws.I think distance is the main reason(they live in front of us and my Dad lives 45 minutes away)I love them both the same.I have been blessed with great in-laws.

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