Call his bluff-Dump Him !

You started off the relationship by lying to him and he is hurt. Give him some time, but you may need to move on if he can't get over it.

Deceiving someone is not the best way to start a relationship. It may be that you have to give up on this one. I hope you have learned a lesson from it, though.

You dug yourself into a hole and you are going to have to do lots of work to get out of it. I have to assume that you're actually (physically) seeing this guy and it is not an exclusively online relationship. If this is the case, you need to sit down and talk to him -- take him out to a restaurant (a nice one) or something like that. And you should insist on paying for it -- this shows him that you are in the business of making up for something you did wrong. At the restaurant (or wherever) you should probably say that you were insecure about your physical image and you used a different picture on the internet to attract people (if this is true). You should then tell him that you know that he is such a good man that he is above being attracted to someone ONLY for physical reasons -- you know this about him through getting to know him so well. Finally, he might not take to this (or any) of your efforts for redemption. People HATE being lied to. In the end, if he cannot see past your physical image or your difficulties with your self-image, you might have to move on to someone else. However, you should try very hard if you like this guy. He will notice if you try hard to impress him. Guys often find that kind of female initiative very intriguing.

You made a big mistake deceiving him. I don't think he can truly ever trust you. Do yourself a favor and find a nice local man who makes drinks at Starbucks and start a relationship based on truth and not deception. I don't think he will ever get over what has been done to him. Sounds like he wants out now. I cannot really blame him.

I see that some people have been kind of hard on you. I do realize that you were trying to protect yourself so this is a bad situation for everyone. I don't believe you deliberately set out to hurt anyone but unfortunately you lost someone because of it. Hang in there and hopefully you'll meet some new friends ;)

How about you just run away with me instead..? Forget everything and start afresh