Whats the best way to tell a man you love him for the first time, without scaring him away?
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ANSWERS: 14
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depends on how long you've been with him
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only after sex ... otherwise you might scare him off!
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You tell the guy how you feel. Everyguy likes a girl and he must like you. So just tell him if he says something stupid just say you were kidding.
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Men dont need to hear it.They dont care either way.They love you or they dont. They dont like to discuss it.Do yourself a favour and just enjoy each others company.It will pop out one day when he is leaving you and you say bye.He'll say, luv ya,casually like he has said it a hundred times before.
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Always be true to yourself and get it off your chest how you really feel about him. If he feels the same 'Great' but if he doesn't, adleast you know and then you can move on and find someone else that will return the love. Everyone deserves to love and be loved!!!
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Personally, I would wait for him to say it first, but that's me. When it comes to that, I'm not as courageous as I should be. If you really want to tell him though, go for it. It really depends on how comfortable both of you are with each other. If you're pretty comfortable, it shouldn't scare him away.
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After a long kiss, tell him that you think you are falling for him. That happened to me and I admitted to him that I was falling in love with him too.
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well, you could tie him up so he couldn't run....i was gonna say break his legs but even the commerical from that movie gives me the shivers....I guess this is the reason I an no good in this subject.
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dont do it!!!!!!!! He will run! just enjoy his company while you can
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Allow him tell you he loves you first.
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Let him tell you first, then you say it back.
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Honey,don you tell that man you love him.There is nothing as bad as being rejected by a man you just asked out,i have been there Trust me on this one,there is no man who is too shuy to approach a girl he loves,i know you may be excusing him as being shuy or slow but youd ratther have youd rather have your heart intact than being torn The most you can do is appreciate this dude make him feel good about himself and boost his ego.If he still cant see that you are a cool chick,it will be his loss not yours.There will be others honey,much nicer and much yourer(if there is such a word) if i were near you id tye you with a rope to make sure you dont tell him you love him.
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how long have you guys been together? if he`s affectionate towards you and you both feel comfortable with one another, just say it in a moment when he`s all cuddly and nice, so it won`t come out of the blue but if he hasn`t so far acted as ifhe were caring for you as well, drop it. keep it to yourself, he`ll either come around and start caring or you`ll break up, but at least you won`t be the one scaring him away. good luck!
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This may sound a little crazy, but you might go out on a limb and try "I love you."
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