an accurate reading of body language on both sides. The prolonged looks back to eachother, paying extra attention to one another. The perception that both people are happy to be around one another but both seem to be in need of a little something more. flirtatiousness, and touching.

are you interested in him? flirt back! let him spank you! and tease him too! but dont go all out for him or anything, what are your intentions?

The tension component is really an extension of the second level of the Attraction Hierarchy - Intrigue. Intrigue can be described in two ways. It can be seen as a lack of over-validating a woman, or getting her attention fixated on you by being ambiguous and holding back information. These are flip sides of the same coin. Applied to sexual tension, we enter a sexual state, but don’t verbalize our desire. If we did, she may like it, or not like it, but at now she knows where she stands - she is validated. That isn’t bad, but it’s not optimal. She has you figured out, and knows you want her, which gives her the option of forgetting about you and focusing elsewhere. You are “solved.” Another key point about verbalizing sexual interest is that it puts her in a position where she has to agree to it. She must consciously admit that this is leading to sex. Again, that’s not bad, but is not optimal, and sometimes can create a mental block in her mind for getting isolated with you. Imagine sitting in a room with a closed treasure chest in front of you. Then you open it and find gold coins. When is the chest more interesting? True, the gold coins are great, but there’s no longer a mystery. You can even forget about the gold coins for a while to go watch TV or call a friend, because those coins aren’t going anywhere. But before you know what’s in there, that chest preoccupies your mind and keeps your attention. This can be done with the following verbal techniques. We can amp up this tension by increasing ambiguity, i.e. intrigue, with the following techniques: Charged vocabulary: throw in sexual/sensual terms like “thrust, hard, deep, wet, throbbing, tongue, pleasure, lick, touch, arouse, desire, etc.” Double entendres: Talking about non-sexual topics, say things that would be highly sexual if taken out of context: “You come from a good place, deep inside, I can feel how open you are, you are a very open woman, you’re a fast girl, how you feel inside, you are very soft inside, let’s do it, come with me, etc.” Sensually descriptive storytelling: Tell stories or describe experiences in very sensual terms, like “the water felt so cool on my skin, it felt really good to get all hot and sweaty playing volleyball, and then get all wet in the water, I love the smooth thick texture of vanilla milkshakes, when I work out I love to get all sweaty and really give it everything I have - I feel like a caveman throwing the weights around, etc.” Incidental kino: As per the “DiCarlo Escalation Ladder,” spend more time on incidental kino, touching her for reasons other than just to touch her. Overt kino: When you are touching her for the sake of touching, create ambiguity and get her all riled up by coming close to, but not actually touching, her sexual parts. Run your hand down her side, just missing her breasts. Rest your hand just above her butt. Stick your pinky finger just under the waist band of her pants. Lean in and smell her neck, but don’t kiss her. Playfully push her against a wall, and close in, then back off without an explanation. Her attention is focused on you, as she gets aroused, thinking “did he mean to say that? did he mean to touch me? What’s going on? Is sex coming?” She gets really emotionally excited because of the ambiguity.

You tingle..your heart beats faster when you're around him..you fantasize about his holding you in his arms. That's as detailed as I can get.

I think it starts with the eyes. You give each other "glances". You start standing a little taller and tuck your shirt in tighter. She starts grooming her hair. You smile at each other a lot.

when you get too close, making a strong eye contact, finding whatever as an excuse to get a minute alone, and you take care of yourself like never before or the other person, when you're putting or somebody is showing to you too much effort to show the best side of itself to impress, a low voice tone and focuses the attention in only one purpose which is contact.

Hahaha! It's funny but I don't understand the term "sexual tension".

Its how they look at you, they start acting nasty with you..they don't want you talking to anyone they interupt. They try to get into your head...be observant..you'll feel it.

Did you make sad puppy eyes?

well, if you don't give hime an opening, he's not goign to ask you out, you have to seem interested. you don't have to make yourself easy or available. You could just be a bit flirtatious and see where ti takes you. Play it slow though, business and pleasure you know.