I feel like I've wasted a year of my life concentrating on the wrong things. I want to improve myself. Whats the best way to approach it?
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a year is not much... besides, when you know you have done a few things all year that were absolutely counter-productive, you have now figured out what not to do again so think of it as a learning experience.. also, our generations life expectancy is about 93yrs old, come to think of it.. a year is barely a fraction of your life so... you still have alot of time to make a comeback turn a new leaf, start over, forget the old things, remove the negative thoughts and just focus on where you want to be in the next 10 years and by the way to answer your negative thoughts question, it helps if you relocate. a new environment and atmosphere always makes for better feelings, do it on your own without anyones help... and those that put you down, relocating to a new place makes a strong statement to them. It tells them you are better than them and you can move, whereas they can't :P LOL finding new people to hang out with... it might just lead to a new bf... who knows? That's what I did :) lol
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