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First of all how old are you? And if it has taken you 2 yrs to figure this out then maybe you should have broke up awhile ago. But to answer your question tell him like it is just that you know things have changed and you dont have the same filings as before. Make sure that you let him know that he has hurt you and been very ungratful. I do wish you the best of luck.
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I went through the same thing with my boyfriend of 5 1/2 yrs. Just let him know exactly how you feel tell him everything let your heart poor and he will see what he has done to you. Don't try and make him see what he's lost because he will soon realize it!!
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ex bf for over a year did same exact things to me.. i broke up with him harshly. i've told him my concerns over and over again throughout our relationship but he never did anything about it. so i got fed up. broke up with him. he realized what he lost and he cried for weeks asking me to take him back. i said sorry. found a new guy and he's very respectful.
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Anonymous03- I had the same issue- I was the only one in the relationship to bring up issues- my concerns. Every time I did, he got defensive or turned it around on me, or got angry and ignored me for days. He took me for granted as well. But now we have decided mutually to "take some time" to work on our own issues, as we are both scared to be in a realtionship. I wasn't scared, I was 100%, but he wasn't (he was single before me for a LONG time). So I realized I don't need to be with him if he doesn't feel the same. maybe he'll realize it soon, maybe later- who know but God? I believe in my heart he has another or other interests- his loss!
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There is really nothing that you can say to make him realize what he lost or is losing,and if he is interested in someone else your break-up is probably already in the making.Every man does not want a good woman so he may not feel the same as you do as far as what you think he is losing,just break it off and be done.
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