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HuskyLove
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Each case is different. It's impossible to answer for all cases, however, I think in the majority of cases the husband/wife wasn't really committed to the relationship in the beginning.
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Oh, this sounds painful. May I politely suggest that it "takes two to tango"? What happened in the marriage that the H began to feel uninterested? Perhaps there was a lack of original commitment but usually there's more to it than that. For any relationship to work both sides have to pay attention. You might also argue that if your partner "drifts away" you are better off without them because they have failed to recognize what a superb person you really are.
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Because they only go off one side of the story and bail. Let me explain...if someone in a relationship comes home everyday and doesn't take time with their s/o, instead finds things to do on their own or with friends, day in and day out, then of course they will fall out off love and lose interest. If the spouse allows it to happen the results are the same. It's a team effort and once one of the partners becomes comfortable living a single life while married, it's a good sign they will become so comfortable that way they will soon want to part ways later. Don't let it happen by being involved, planning and doing things together, to include the kids, if any. It's like an investment...if you forget to keep checking on whether it's making or losing money, than it's going to turn into a failed asset out of pure neglect. Think about it.
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COMMUNICATION! The biggest reason for loss of intrest in each other is a faiure to communicate! It is not one sided. Both parties need to sit down find out where things went wrong and pick up from there. And, don't be afraid to seek outside help...sometimes a neutral opinion works wonders!!!
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Because sometimes they think the grass is greener on the other side and they wonder "what if". A strong man and a devoted man will stand strong with his wife the coward gives up looking for th greener side and not realizing just what they had was the best. Sometimes we do nto realize just what we have till it is gone. Marriage like everything in life is work. We need to work as a team to make it better and to keep it strong.
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Maybe she nags too much and nitpicks on faults that she makes up about him.
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