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  • If a guy says that he does not want a relationship, I would say that you should believe him. He is not necessarily using you, though, as when you hooked up it was consentual, correct? If you think that this "friendship" (for lack of a better word) is too complicated then perhaps you should spend less time hanging out with him.
  • It is disconcerting that you framed the question in terms of being used. What does that mean and why would he be using you any more than you are using him? It sounds to me like you really like this guy and you want something more. Sometimes guys will say they don't want a relationship when they mean that they don't want to commit to a relationship right then and there. It could go either way. Maybe he'll start wanting one or maybe he just enjoys your company. Love is a gamble. But if you're not comfortable with the idea of just hooking up without a commitment, you may be out of luck here.

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