I will be adopting a baby soon .Should I adopt a baby boy or a baby girl, and why.
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How is anybody supposed to answer this question when ultimately it's your own personal viewpoints that matter. Certainly for something as important as taking in a new member of the family who has only just been born into this world, you should be thinking more about what you want and not what people you have probably never met think. Ask your partner if you have one (surely you must have discussed this already) which you would prefer. In the end though, I'm sure you will be filled with joy regardless of what the sex of the baby is.
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In my opinion it doesnt matter which gender you choose. Babies are babies and will thrive on love, attention and affection. The decision is yours only.
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That's a tough one -- boys and girls really are different creatures as they grow up, in many ways. I think you'll love either one and be a good parent, but I don't know how to help sort out the big question of which gender to pick. I suspect that when you get into the adoption process deeper and start seeing the children who need homes, you'll find one or more that just hit your heartstrings and the thoughts about gender will drop into the background more. Exciting and scary stuff...
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I know you shouldn't answer a question with a question but why would you want to adopt a child in the fist place they are un-grateful loathsome creatures that cost a fortune to maintain and cause nothing but heartache till the day they throw you into the old folks home
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a girl there just better lol
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Adopting or choosing a boy baby or girl baby is not important. 1) What matters is you shouldn’t have any expectations from them when they are adult. 2) Because that is when you might think (Have I done a wrong choice) when they don’t measure up to your expected standard or Act accordingly.
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Statistically there are more girls in the world then boys. However, if you are adopting and thinking of a Chinese baby for example then a girl because they have the strict child rules so if a parent gives up a child its usualy a girl because they cant provide as much for the family in that culture.
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i have had 2 boys and two girls. I think my boys were easier to potty train and they are easier to shop for, but my girls like doing things with me we do our hair nails by house ect. My boys would rather be outside or helping there dads so it all depends what your looking for. They can both be fun but they are both challening at the same time. Good luck in your life it is going to be very interesting from here on out.
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The decision is solely up to you and your significant other. As a personal preference I would Adopt an infant from my own country (USA) due to the large number of babies in need here. Unlike these popular celeb's that feel adopting children from the foriegn lands is the answer. Best of luck and GOD BLESS you and yours for opening your warm hearts to a child in need
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i think you should adopt a baby girl because im a girl and i love baby girls!LOL =] kidding...i think coheed gave really good advice....it doesnt really matter what baby u adopt...and ther gonna grow up wit u already and go by ur rules and will be raised by u....so it really doesnt matter...i think you should just go seee the babiess and see which one you like lol
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I'm adopted my self, and have just recently found my dad, which took me two years to do so. but have your girl for a while, and see what the challenges of having a girl are and also the positive, but if i were in your shoes i would want a boy, so i have one of each. just so i can get the exprences
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i would adopt 2 a boy and a girl so you could the girl something and your husband (if u have one) can teach the boy something
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either way the child that is meant to be yours will find its way to you and you will know from the first moment this is your child.
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Does it really matter if it's a boy or a girl? Surly the fact that your going to adopt should mean that you have enough love to give no matter what the sex. Are you sure you want to adopt!-with your current pole online (boy/girl;if i adopt a boy/girl and in 10years time he/she is a litle ****)i can blame the internet? You sure your ready?
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they are both the same. i would appeciate having the chance of recieving a child, especially if it's alive and healthy.
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I think adoption is a blessing and you should adopt which ever one is offered to you first.
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both, preferably siblings.
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I think you should adopt a child that needs you the most, the sex doesn't matter, you will grow to love that child regardless.
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You need to abopt 2 babies. So later on when they learn to talk & say theres not one to play with. That statement doesnt have much credibility when they have a sibling to play with. They'll still say it but it wont bother you as much. Only Children have problems that come out later in life. Everyone I ever met who was an only child is divorced in later life. I see this again and again.Having a sibling to stimulate you helps you resolve some problems earlier in life in your relationships. Same thing when you get a dog. Get a male and female(spay & neuter is ok). Its better than the dog being lonely.
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the child that needs most care and love.
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I'd say adopt the first one that comes to you -- real child birth is pretty random -- that's what most parents go through -- I think we're probably programmed to accept that outcome better.
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