Is it ok for my boyfriend to look at other girls? he gets worried when i look at him and says he didn't look i don't care that much but still a little jealous sometimes. Am i too jealous? Is it normal to be jealous over this?
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Candygirl191
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Normal to a certian extent(not sure how you define it) but it certianly isnt respectful. The truth is, everyone looks at someone else while in a relationship, but its what they are thinking about when looking and/or what their intentions are. If him looking at other girls is stealing time away from you, interesting him more then you are, taking away from the conversation then its a problem. You should be the thing catching his attention, and if his eye is wanderin gtoo much you may want to tell him how you feel. But its alright to be jealous a bit (although jealousy is never healthy) but keep it in check and realize youre the one with him, not the other girls (and he may want to remind himself of that to).
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yes it's normal for both sexes to look and of course looking and touching are 2 different stories. jealousy is ok as long as it doesnt get out of hand actually both of these things are in our human nature.
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he denies looking (lies to you) because he knows you are insecure and would be bothered by something you shouldn't. I am comfortable with my wife looking and even want to know her opinion on what she sees... I wish she would do the same but she is aflicted with petty jealousy. like others have said, there is a difference between looking and touching.
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It's as normal for a woman to be jealous over that as it is for the guy to look, and not want his woman to think he's looking. Just as long as it's not carried to far, there's no harm on either side of the issue.
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Looking is looking....don't read too much into it. Do you look at other guys? Just looking is normal and not a threat. Glancing over and watching is one thing.....getting eye contact and holding it is flirting.
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