ANSWERS: 6
  • You said: "I'm married & love my husband." Then don't screw it up for something on the "other side of the fence". Attraction to other males is normal, but this is your husband's best friend and he may be playing you for an ego boost. Imagine if your husband had fallen for YOUR best friend. It's betrayal at it's worst, don't you think? Start spending more time with your husband. Perhaps you should remember why you married him.
  • what ever you have to do to keep faithful do it.
  • i was (and still am) in the same situation, except im not married. but i know it would be stupid to ever do anything about it, the complications are just ridiculous... it would never be simple to do it, it would never be easy, so i left it, and even though i do still know i have feelings for him, i started to realise alot of them was because i saw of alot of my partner in his bestfriend, and even though they are different in other areas of their personalities and looks i realised i wouldnt be gaining anything from leaving an undeserving GOOD man for another similar man. and tbh, i hate to admit it but alot of it was just lust, and looks go. I know im only telling you my story, but i hope it was just as helpful as your question was for me as it made me actually think everything out clearly =]
  • The best way to get over this guy is not see him but I realise that will be difficult. It's a classic case of the grass over the fence looking greener but is it worth hurting your husband to be with this man?
  • no its not wrong, you are trying to do what any good person would. Be strong, when these feelings fade your husband will still be there for you, his best friend won't, I know because I have been there myself.
  • if u really have feeling for this guy,by getting mad with him is not going to change the way u feel about him,please stop lying to ur self, the more u get mad, is the more u love him,the best thing to do,chat with the guy,loving someone or feelings for someone is natural. and please dont tell ur husband, he may be the one who is going to get mad.

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