you'll leave him when you're ready, not matter how much he beats your ass. it's not gonna get better and he's a pussy for punching a female. period. so, unless you want to live your life getting punched and pushed around by him, then so be it. if you want to be another statistic to domestic violence, then stay in the relationship. maybe you need to read some domestic violence stories and do some serious thinking about if you want that coward in your life. good luck

Get out. Love should not hurt. He needs anger management classes. You need to get out of the relationship. Violence escalates. He could love you to death.

*sigh* Maybe if you stay longer he'll beat some sense into you. Come on. Read your own statements. Does this even SOUND like it could be called a healthy relationship? Why would you want to be with someone who acts like that? There are plenty of men out there who don't need to beat a woman to gain her loyalty. That doesn't sound like love, it sounds like you being afraid to leave and afraid to be alone and dependent on this person to make you feel like you're worth something, when in reality you'd be better off alone. At least then you won't be in pain.

Ok. (Strap in it's a fairly dragged out story). Myself and my fiance have been through something similar to this. I have never pushed her but, in the beggining, I put my fist through the main door to the apartment, swore at her, and threw stuff accross the room. She was nagging the hell out of me and I kept telling her to stop untill finaly I lost it.*door thing* After doing so I left for a walk. She didn't get the hint and I told her clearly and calmly that I needed to go alone and cool off. Later on I got home and sat at the oposite end of the bed. We talked about what made us do what we do. Why I hit things (Because I didn't want to hit her and i needed to get my frustration out somewhere, I have since then got a large punching bag in the back yard thus my frustrations can be taken care of and she can nag me all she wants) and why she gets on me and doesn't stop about petty nonsence. Just try talking to him and tell him that he realy hurts you. Find out what triggers the emotions that causes him to hurt you and how to avoid doing so (within reason of course). If he doesn't get the hint then it's time to leave. Him destroying items of no real value is one thing but your body is ireplacable.

You do not need to ask the question as you already know the answer.....he is an abuser. He will hurt you. It will escalate until he punches you in the face. THIS IS NOT LOVE. Get out while you can, please.

Real men don't hit women. Go find a real man