After growing apart from my 2 only best buds, I just hung out w/t my b/f and his friends 4 the last bit of HS.I'm in college now, i feel like I have nobody 2 talk 2 except my b/f and sister about my problems.Seems like making close friends is so hard
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Yes, it is one of the hardest tasks in your life. Sometimes, it is hard to find somebody who is like you and who you have fun with. Perhaps the best way to think about making friends is to decide what makes a friend. People that you should be friends with should be like this: -show an interest in what people do -are good at giving compliments without going overboard -go around with a pleasant expression on their face -laugh at people's jokes -are kind -ask, not demand, to join in -offer to help others with work or carry things -invite people to do something -hang around places where other students are -are welcoming to new students -are good at thinking of something interesting to do -are willing to share -are humorous and tell jokes -are fair -are good at organising games or activities If you have great difficulty, try going to a counselor.
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I think you could make many friends, but that requires putting yourself out there. You may have to smile at others, appear sociable, and mostly be approachable. I friendly nod or smile can go a long way. It is harder in College and you seem a little shy, but hold your head up and go for it!
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