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wyatt
ANSWERS: 100
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I know really, I like kinky girls, if he doesnt like you, find someone who will, he sounds like a lamo anyway
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too kinky... pft, no such thing.
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haha. wtf? If a guys complain about a girl being to kinky, and answers is leave him. But, when a girl complains about a guy being to horny, the answers is, he's perverted, just leave him. haha. wtf ------------ Anyways, clam down and let him breath every now and than. Geeze.
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Drop him! If he's complaining about you being "too kinky" then he's the one with the problem!!
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Find a man that can handle a gift like you.
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Less? I have never heard of any male complaining that their girlfriend is too kinky. It is usually just the opposite! If you are seriously in love with this guy, tone it down a notch, but if you aren't seriously in love, you can pick and choose among the remaining men on the planet!
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in my opinion, it partly depends on how long you've been going together. if it's been two weeks, give it time or dump but if its been 10 years, i'd ask, why is this coming up now? i'd be tempted to sit down and ask him, "what, exactly, behaviors that i do are too kinky for you?" next, i'd ask him to what degree it really bothers him. if it's something that doesn't really knock my socks off and he's only a little bothered by it, then, i'd next ask him something to the effect of, "what's a good balancing point, where we can both enjoy physically being together? i really enjoy being with you (if it's true) and other than the kinkiness, he enjoys being with you. there are just some folks who aren't all that interested in an adventurous sex life. sexual gratification is an important part of our satisfaction as a whole. but, it is only one part. communication and negotiation and assessing values and needs are all important parts ... good luck!!!
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Turn it down a notch as he's not ready or uncomfortable. When he becomes interested again he will ask you. Then it will become more fun.
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Dump him, date me ; ) Seriously though - ask him to expound and if it comes across as him trying to change YOU in ways that are controlling etc...think seriously about continuing the relationship. I wish you well.
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Can you be more specific? Like ramming stuff in him and shit like that? I'm not into that either, but, positions and places, I'm all in and he needs to go find a Nun.
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Tell him it's only kinky the "first" time!
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Find a new boyfriend... me.
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I would ask him if he is who you want to be with. Otherwise you will just get a bunch of answers from guys telling you to go ahead and hit it and get with them .. whether your intent or not. If you care about him.. both of your sexual needs should be met and communicated. Two people who are intimate should have a goal of finding out what pleases the other so.. work more on what turns him on and teach him what turns you on. There can be a lot of fun in discovering your lover's limits, kinks and secret desires.. just discuss them in an intimate setting. I, personally, would not be with a man who had me going to the internet to fix a problem in the bedroom. Learning new things here? Sure.. learning how to not be me in the bedroom? No. It should fit. If it doesn't.. either put work into it or find something that better fits your needs and desires. If he cannot please you or meet your desires.. where is the attraction? Your happiness should turn him on and learning what he likes/does not like, should turn you on to please him better... you two need to talk. Good luck with that.
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I'd say let me experience it and be judge of that. I will then provide you with the answer!
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try to be to him instead of to kinky.
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Teach a class. I'd sure love you. :)
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Ditch the prude.
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It it even possible to be "to kinky"?
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You find another boyfriend.
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Nothing kinkiness is good =)
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introduce new ideas gently and one at a time. give him a chance to learn to like it. Its much easier to turn a man kinky than vice versa. Watch a porn that has a certain thing you want him to try and let him know how hot it makes you.
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There's no such thing as too kinky. Finding another guy should be easy.
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Maybe you're not compatible in that way, it doesn't mean either of you are in the wrong. Talk to him, and if you can't that probably shows you there's something lacking in your relationship in other areas. You should be able to be yourself in a relationship, be it through communicating or sex and if you're not then it wasn't meant to be.
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come over to my place and let's get our freak on!!!
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Leave him and find someone less staid and boring.
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what's your definition of 'kinky'? I see you boys giving it all the biggun,loving the kinky talk, HOWEVER what if her idea of kinky is shoving a dildo up your arse, whilst you're wearing her panties. Are you still so game for that?!! I thought not.
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Time for a 3some.
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realize that everyone's got different stuff they're into...as in 'different strokes for different folks' if he means a lot, then ask him what bothers him, and tone that down if he doesnt, believe me, there's LOTS of guys that are willing to be kinky with you
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You can start by calling and giving my wife some pointers!!!!
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tell him go find a blow up doll
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maybe its cause you are hurting his manly parts. All ya have to do is tone it down a bit.
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call me
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Get a new boyfriend!
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No. really, ask him what he means by it. If he finds the things you want to do out of his comfort zone and you don't love him, do find a new BF. But if you love him then maybe you can reach a comfortable compromise until he loosens up.
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Leave him and start dating me. :)
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tell him he smells bad
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Get a kinkier boyfriend.
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Holy crap! Most guys I know would KILL to date you! Keep up the good work!
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Find a boyfriend who's not a prude.
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get a new boyfriend...you can never be too kinky!!!
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Talk to him about why he thinks you are too kinky. Chatting is always a nice way to get things across. If it turns out that you aren't happy anymore, then do some more talking and if it doesn't get better, then feel free to send me a message and we can meet for lunch and then see how "to kinky" you really are. Ha, but yeah, talk to him.
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I don't know, but I'd love to hear about it. What do you do? Go ahead we're all listening!
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kinky:) well lets see..dont get too much kinky than you are right now :]
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teach him or find someone who appreciates it.
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Learn to spell... that ought to calm him down.
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Kinky is a relative term, what may be kinky to me would be lame to others. Find some common ground where you both can be happy.
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get a new b/f. WTF is the matter with this guy? How can a girl be too kinky?!?
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Come over to my house anytime you want:))
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If you like him, dial it back a notch. He'll catch up eventually. You just have to help him get there.
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Wow... what a fag. Girl, it's impossible to be to kinky! 99% of other guys can back me up on that.
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well you could try slowing it down a bit and ease him into whatever you want to try. and if he dosn't come around then he isn't the guy for you. or he might feel insecure because you know what you want and he might not, you might be crushing his ego by taking the reins in the bedroom, again if he dosn't fall in line then he isn't the guy for you!
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Just tell him he's boring in bed and then watch him get kinkier....
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he may just be intimidated.
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Date me! I guarentee you you're not to kinky. And I'll probably be able to teach you ALOT. Wait! You're 18 or older right?
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Prove it to him lol
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learn to iron?
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I'm sorry to say, but you break up with him and find someone you're more compatible with. Settling for vanilla won't make you happy.
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dump him......Whats your phone number? :)
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Is there a such as being too kinky?
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Put down the banana, untie the goat, and do your boyfriend missionary-style for a change.
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You are definately tooo much for him.You need to chill out with all that kinky stuff.Take your time with him.If you don't, you may loose him.When he decides to marry,it won't be you.He wants a lady not a freak.
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slow your roll!
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Get another boyfriend!!!!!
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Kinky is a bad thing?
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just say to him "what am i doing that is kinky?" than once he tells you, just don't do the things he listed.
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try to be "less kinky".
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i can tell you what not to do....it involes leaving your finger out of his backside.
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call me
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"Too Kinky" is an Oxymoron. As long as it's just between the two of you, and it's mutual, then there shouldn't be a problem. Put yourself in his shoes for a moment. Think of something you would NEVER do in bed for anyone. And I mean ANYONE. Then imagine him asking you to do that for him. How would that make you feel? There; you have your answer. On the otherside of the equasion, if you're Pamela Anderson Lee, call me. :-)
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I think it is important to just be yourself. You could ask him what does he mean by this comment. Does being kinky make him uncomfortable? May be you can both meet on a level that you are both comfortable with. But just make sure you are happy and not giving up anything that you don't want to. Hope this helps.
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no such thing as "to kinky" but some guys don't like new things all at once so start off on the beginner levels and work up. It'll grow on him. He might just be freaking out cause he doesn't know exactly what hes getting into.
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Time to put away the lactating watermelons.
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Tell him that it's pretty normal and that a lot of other people hold hands too...
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get rid of him and find yourself a man who is oooohhhhhhhh so kinky
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dont change and keep doing what u like to do.
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If he doesn't like it. I'm sure you can find someone else who is as kinky as you are or even more than you.
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here's my number 323-732-4049...call me
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Don't change. Just give him a little taste every now and then. Remember you will need to keep control on that "kinky" stuff. Believe me, he likes it. I have yet to meet a man who didn't. SOURCE: LIFE
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find someone your more compatible with....somone who enjoys the same things...out of kinky, life, everything
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find someone more 'like-minded
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Take him to the doctor, there must be something wrong with him. Dammit I'd cut my friggin leg off to find a women who is "too kinky"!!
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Try compromise, you could lighten up a bit, and he can get a little more kinky.......meet in the middle and maybe he'll start liking it more and more!!! I wouldn't give up on him if you love him.
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Tell him to grow up and get a grip! U can't change yourself so he either accepts you as you are or moves on.
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Apparently, there's not much that you *don't* do! Cool.
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Find out what he means by 'too kinky'. It may be something simple that you can back off from. You might also try to find out WHY he thinks it is too kinky.
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He just isnt into the stuff you are... If those are things you need then he is going to have to accept it and get to crackin. Or if its something you dont HAVE to have in bed then tone it down.
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lick his butt hole.... IT WILL WORK!
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find a boyfriend that appreciates you
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What a coincidence! My wife says I am 'to rinky' - What do I do? hmmm...
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too kinky??? ive never hear of this.
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Hmm the phrase "too kinky" isnt sumthin i hear ever so umm...Find a new guy. Kinky enuf for you :P
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Presumbably everything right...
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don't you mean "too kinky"? I would work on my education rather than my panty and toy collection
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I am confused! Isn't that like too much fun? There is no such thing! I wish I could help but I don't believe your the problem. :)
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Find someone who values your kinkyness. I'm sure someone would love to have you.
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outplayed him
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Call me ;)
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Stop playing with his butt.
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You need to sit down with him and ask him what it is about you that bothers him. The key is open communciation. If he thinks you are being too kinky in some areas, I would look to change that if you are interested in keeping the relationship going. Good luck to you.
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pee in his butt. that will teach him a lesson in relativity
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