by wyatt on July 30th, 2008

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My boyfriend says I am, " to kinky". What do I do?

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  • by sharkey on September 24th, 2008

    sharkey

    call me

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  • by angry_onion on November 11th, 2008

    angry_onion

    Tell him that it's pretty normal and that a lot of other people hold hands too...

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  • by Bob on July 30th, 2008

    Bob

    in my opinion, it partly depends on how long you've been going together. if it's been two weeks, give it time or dump but if its been 10 years, i'd ask, why is this coming up now? i'd be tempted to sit down and ask him, "what, exactly, behaviors that i do are too kinky for you?" next, i'd ask him to what degree it really bothers him. if it's something that doesn't really knock my socks off and he's only a little bothered by it, then, i'd next ask him something to the effect of, "what's a good balancing point, where we can both enjoy physically being together? i really enjoy being with you (if it's true) and other than the kinkiness, he enjoys being with you. there are just some folks who aren't all that interested in an adventurous sex life. sexual gratification is an important part of our satisfaction as a whole. but, it is only one part. communication and negotiation and assessing values and needs are all important parts ... good luck!!!

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  • by LadyPictureShow on January 29th, 2009

    LadyPictureShow

    Stop playing with his butt.

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  • by Erebus on January 21st, 2009

    Erebus

    lick his butt hole....


    IT WILL WORK!

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  • by Digitalbum on October 7th, 2008

    Digitalbum

    Leave him and start dating me. :)

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  • by Wild One on August 14th, 2008

    Wild One

    Can you be more specific? Like ramming stuff in him and shit like that? I'm not into that either, but, positions and places, I'm all in and he needs to go find a Nun.

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  • by Inducted Kitty on October 21st, 2008

    Inducted Kitty

    Holy crap! Most guys I know would KILL to date you!
    Keep up the good work!

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  • by Pete Parker on August 14th, 2008

    Pete Parker

    Turn it down a notch as he's not ready or uncomfortable. When he becomes interested again he will ask you. Then it will become more fun.

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  • by Tex on July 30th, 2008

    Tex

    Find a man that can handle a gift like you.

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  • by LuckyLefty on January 29th, 2009

    LuckyLefty

    Call me ;)

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  • by Banned from Yahoo on January 21st, 2009

    Banned from Yahoo

    I am confused! Isn't that like too much fun? There is no such thing! I wish I could help but I don't believe your the problem. :)

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  • by Marky Mark on July 29th, 2009

    Marky Mark

    Say "It's only kinky the first time." ;0)

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  • by Anonymous on January 21st, 2009

    Anonymous

    Find someone who values your kinkyness. I'm sure someone would love to have you.

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  • by shady on January 21st, 2009

    shady

    find a boyfriend that appreciates you

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  • by TaylorMade on October 22nd, 2008

    TaylorMade

    I don't know, but I'd love to hear about it. What do you do? Go ahead we're all listening!

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  • by Jewel on July 30th, 2008

    Jewel

    Less?
    I have never heard of any male complaining that their girlfriend is too kinky. It is usually just the opposite!
    If you are seriously in love with this guy, tone it down a notch, but if you aren't seriously in love, you can pick and choose among the remaining men on the planet!

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  • by Jecks on July 30th, 2008

    Jecks

    too kinky... pft, no such thing.

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  • by -Icy- on July 25th, 2009

    -Icy-

    i'd find someone else.. i mean you are you... you deserve someone that loves you and likes the kinky ! never ever hide who you are !! smiles

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  • by Adz3r0 on March 24th, 2009

    Adz3r0

    Quit inviting his parents to watch.

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  • by Stillme FBB on January 30th, 2009

    Stillme FBB

    Tell him to go sit on an egg and call you when it hatches!

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  • by diva86o4 on January 30th, 2009

    diva86o4

    buy a whip and hand cuffs and show him what kinky is. lol

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  • by Jimbob on January 21st, 2009

    Jimbob

    Presumbably everything right...

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  • by Dreamworx on January 21st, 2009

    Dreamworx

    Hmm the phrase "too kinky" isnt sumthin i hear ever so umm...Find a new guy. Kinky enuf for you :P

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  • by Capital J on January 21st, 2009

    Capital J

    too kinky??? ive never hear of this.

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  • by SnortingMercury enjoys New panties on October 22nd, 2008

    SnortingMercury enjoys New panties

    get a new b/f. WTF is the matter with this guy? How can a girl be too kinky?!?

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  • by Chuckles on October 7th, 2008

    Chuckles

    No. really, ask him what he means by it. If he finds the things you want to do out of his comfort zone and you don't love him, do find a new BF. But if you love him then maybe you can reach a comfortable compromise until he loosens up.

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  • by Chuckles on October 7th, 2008

    Chuckles

    Get a new boyfriend!

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  • by Anonymous on September 13th, 2008

    Anonymous

    Time for a 3some.

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  • by Insomniac on August 14th, 2008

    Insomniac

    Teach a class.
    I'd sure love you. :)

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  • by verbal_assassin on July 30th, 2008

    verbal_assassin

    haha. wtf? If a guys complain about a girl being to kinky, and answers is leave him.

    But, when a girl complains about a guy being to horny, the answers is, he's perverted, just leave him.

    haha. wtf

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    Anyways, clam down and let him breath every now and than. Geeze.

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  • by - MojoThunder - on July 29th, 2009

    - MojoThunder -

    come on over and let me see for myself ;)

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  • by Kimtastic on July 25th, 2009

    Kimtastic

    get a new boyfriend!

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  • by absicht on March 5th, 2009

    absicht

    Smile and say thank you.

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  • by Mistress_of_Paranoia on March 3rd, 2009

    Mistress_of_Paranoia

    Tone it down a little. In a relationship you both need to compromise. You can show him a thing here and there, but respect his wishes at the same time.

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  • by Marky Mark on February 25th, 2009

    Marky Mark

    Find someone who appreciates kinkiness. How kinky are you? I have to ask. Some people think kinky is doing it during the day.

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  • by Ricardo Demarko on February 25th, 2009

    Ricardo Demarko

    Just be you. If he can’t accept you for who you are then he is not the right person for you. Most guys would love to have a kinky gf, and he doesn’t know how lucky he is to have someone like you than find someone who does. His loss.

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  • by ThisAnonymous1 on January 31st, 2009

    ThisAnonymous1

    Add another "o" to "to".

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  • by Manda on January 30th, 2009

    Manda

    Wow, that is sort of unusual for me to hear a guy saying that lol. Just talk to him and ask him what bothers him. And keep it vanilla for a while.

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  • by .Pretty . Zombie. on January 30th, 2009

    .Pretty . Zombie.

    tell him he's "too boring" and find a new boyfriend.

    Or have plain and boring sex to keep him happy.

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  • by gurkthealien on January 29th, 2009

    gurkthealien

    well, if your boyfriend is saying "i am to kinky" that means that he is actually kinky

    but if he says you are 'to kinky' he is actually referring to an ancient saying, originating from the 12th century in England. The legend goes that 'kinky' was the name of a small dog in the town of Hyastinvillet. And often times people would travel far and wide to see this small dog named 'kinky' to see the tricks he could do. And oh what tricks!

    Anyways, when your boyfriend says you are 'to kinky,' he is actually refering to the long journey to Hyastinvillet to see the small dog kinky, i.e. 'to kinky'

    so do some tricks, blow some ditty bag and off you should go!

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  • by Ramblin Ricky on January 29th, 2009

    Ramblin Ricky

    Chill out!

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  • by WashingtonsWorst on January 29th, 2009

    WashingtonsWorst

    outplayed him

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  • by Rinky Dinky Do on January 21st, 2009

    Rinky Dinky Do

    What a coincidence! My wife says I am 'to rinky' - What do I do? hmmm...

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  • by hizentaru69 on November 7th, 2008

    hizentaru69

    Is there a such as being too kinky?

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  • by alfugazi on November 4th, 2008

    alfugazi

    dump him......Whats your phone number? :)

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  • by egg-yoke on November 4th, 2008

    egg-yoke

    learn to iron?

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  • by amandamae645 on October 25th, 2008

    amandamae645

    well you could try slowing it down a bit and ease him into whatever you want to try. and if he dosn't come around then he isn't the guy for you. or he might feel insecure because you know what you want and he might not, you might be crushing his ego by taking the reins in the bedroom, again if he dosn't fall in line then he isn't the guy for you!

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  • by Artemisia on October 22nd, 2008

    Artemisia

    Wow... what a fag. Girl, it's impossible to be to kinky! 99% of other guys can back me up on that.

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  • by Someguy on October 22nd, 2008

    Someguy

    If you like him, dial it back a notch. He'll catch up eventually. You just have to help him get there.

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