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Try going 6mo or a year without dating. Take time to figure out what you want in life and what type of person can fulfill that. Perhaps your eyes and your heart are moving in two different directions.
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Would like to know the answer to that one...too close to that myself to answer objectively
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spend some time alone and with friends. dont go on the look out for your next relationship just let things happen slowly at a pace that you are comfortable with. generally if you get into a hobby or interst then you wont even think about it and thats when love tends to pop up and surprise you. loving and respecting yourself as you are accepting your faults and praising yourself for your goodness is the first step. all those people who hurt you in the past are just scaffolding to shape the person you are today. the saying what doesnt kill us makes us stronger is so true. i hope you find happiness within yourself xxx
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You don't give much info, but it sounds like you need to reinvent yourself. It can be done. I attended an Ed Foreman Successful Life seminar. Google it and see ... There are other similar programs, books, etc. After that I changed myself a lot. I lost weight, bought new clothes, got my teeth fixed, etc., but most important changed my attitude about things and became very consious of some of my behavior that turned other people off. Do as the seminar/book says. It takes some time; just keep working at it. Some people are just not very likeable because of the way they are; sounds like you are one of these. Reinvent yourself along the lines suggested and people will like you and your relationships will blossom. You will find this is a fun and satisfying thing to do. If you don't do anything else, improve your outward apperance, hygeine, etc., and start subtlely imitating the behavior of people you admire. Stay away from people that don't have anything going for them and drag you down.
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If you want to grow..you will find a way. If you want to shut yourself down you will also do that...It is all a choice...sometimes a very difficult choice...but you sound like you want to keep going and so I believe you will not shut yourself off...
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