How would you feel if the person you are dating looked through all of your AB Q and A's? violated?
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no... maybe a bit, exposed? but not VIOLATED
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Since he's a fellow ABer, he's seen a lot of them and still manages to put up with me;)
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Lol. I would care less. He can look through it all he wants. =)
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Kinda but my hubby knows everything I do and say for the most part. I would be more annoyed cause he did not just ask what I was saying and asking cause I would tell him.
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i wouldnt care, did you know if ya go into google ya can search for your answerbag and a whole page will come up with everything about your AB on it (q's, a's, points youve got and given)
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My husband knows I'm on it all the time and sometimes he wonders why I laugh, but he can't honestly turn my laptop on, I want to teach him, no thanks....So, he wouldn't, I wouldn't care anyway.
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This is a public forum, so I don't care. Besides, I wouldn't be surprised, a lot of people want to look through all my questions and answers.
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Not at all. I write what I feel and he accepts that. I tell him almost everything I write and what I enjoy hear. I would be hurt if he felt i hadn't been honest about it and thought I was writing bad things. But if he wanted to read anything here that's fine with me.
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I'ld feel violated. I know that the key to a good relationship is honesty and openess but the person I am dating should be secure enough in himself and our relationship to allow me to have some privacy.
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Enter at your own risk.
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yes, but only because i hate people going through my stuff and it annoys me soooooooo much. there isn't a word to describe my anger when someone snoops through my stuff. ahhh!! lol
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Yeah! My questions are private.
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He does read all of my AB posts and I don't feel the least bit violated. I read his too, so it's fair.
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I wouldn't care that he wanted to know what was going on. What would piss me off to no end would be if he did it in a sneaky manner and behind my back. Why not just ask up front? I don't have the time for that immature, hurtful crap. It's one of the reasons I chose the man I did to marry. NO GAMES!!!
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well i wouldnt care. she'd be like wow you must really like me to get all this help. and i'd be like yea well ya know, i try.
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it would cause a fight because she can't handle the truth. aside from hte fight I am fine with it.
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I don't think it really matters. Its open to the public so anyone can really look through them. I guess it all depends on the person really.
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I would be happy, sort of. I would consider it a sign that she actually want to learn more about me, in a harmless way. My ex, however, was pissed that I read what she wrote, and she ended up leaving AB after she broke up with me because I commented on her answers. ...apparently she didn't realise that I had her on my friendlist and that I had enabled "show friends' answers". Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't consider that stalking
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I have nothing to hide. Except the part about wishing I were Chinese.
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I am not dating anyone but if I ever started to again I would have no problem at all with them looking through all my q and a's They might find me a bit too harsh when it comes to cheating or being in a relationship with someone who already has a partner but other than that I am ok with them looking
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The person I am married to is an AB user and looks through my questions/answers on a regular basis. I could care less..I have nothing to hide..I like when he looks through my questions/answers.
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Bsweet can look all she wants, but shows no interest in even looking through all those damn questions and answers.
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Wouldnt bother me - after all, a whole lot of strangers on here have that right?
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LOL! My respect for her would climb even higher. She would be checking out the one she's considering, and that's NEVER bad. My wife of seven months did a very comprehensive job of checking me out, including an online search of all my nicknames and my credit report. And she married me ANYWAY! LOL!
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