How about when a husband tells you it's over and he doesn't THINK he feels the way he should about you anymore? But insists he still does love and care about you? How does he think he SHOULD feel??? I'm confused. There is some built up resentment .
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If you've been together for a long time, sometimes people get that 'seven year itch' where they question the choices they've made, and miss the way it felt in the begining of your relationship. or could be midlife crisis, where they realize they are getting old and have that flee instinct. He probably does love you, but he just misses the way you were with each other when it was new. And thats really an unfair thing to expect to recreate, because, you know, at the begining, you don't know each other, you are smitten, you only see the good things and its exciting. You can't get that back, in my opinion. Good Luck.
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To clarify my question, we've been married 15 yrs and are both 58 and he claims there is a woman of interest but not an affair, but thinks she has the connection he hasn't had in any of his previous relationships including ours. I think he is looking for total acceptance, as is. He has mental illness issues and has had for many years. We've been through alot of serious problems, but I thought we were ok. I work away 5 days a week, but am home on weekends, holidays, vacations etc. He feels he was neglected during that 2 yr period and dropped divorce on me when I was done with my job and ready to be full time wife again. We needed the money and had lost our home to bankruptcy.
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