Single moms: Have you ever experienced having to not only deal with your child's dead beat father, but his dead beat mom,too?? I've never heard of a mom getting mad at the child's mom just because her sorry son refuses to pay child support like he should!
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LisaJoy
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Oh yes, since you are the reason her son is not happy of course it is your fault! My ex=mother in law said it was my fault too. The only thing you can do is keep going to court, by the book. When your children are older they will know. You won't even have to tell them. Minr are grown now and he is the one who wants to see them, but of couse they won't and it is also my fault. I was told by my mother in law that I ruined his life and he did not have enough money to help his children, becuase he was so unhappy. Do me a favor if possible don't leave your children with the in laws, they will posion them..
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And what fun she is. My former in-law helped with the bills because I couldn't work and he was too busy with an addiction and would throw in my face that the only reason she helped was for the kids, then when I filed for divorce, knowing ALL of what was going on, she stopped all of it that day. She got him a place, furnished it and paid his bills some more! Even lied in court to get visitation with them when it wasn't even necessary! Don't ge me wrong, she shouldn't be helping EITHER of us.
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actually i'm nt in this exact situation, however i am a single mother with a deadbeat dad for an ex, but my ex's mother and i are like family, literally. he isn't close to his family but they treat me and my son, their grandchild, as best as we could wish. of course there are things i won't talk to her about, but i'm glad we are on good terms for my son's sake. family is so importatnt to me and although my son is only 11 months, i strongly want him to know his whole family as best as possible. but i do feel for you
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