How can you tell if you are falling out of love? Sure relationships have their highs and lows, but what's the difference between falling out of love and just being bored?
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Caliguurl65
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When things get boring in a relationship, it's fairly easy to ask one another about things they can do differently, or things they can do together to enjoy their time together more, and just do something different,and exciting. I think it's obvious to know when things fall out of place when two people start going their seperate ways and loose sight of the important aspects of a relationship, which would be, communication, spending time with eachother, just even the little tings. It's important to always stay in contact and to try to make things work out to the best of your ability. Also, if there are problems that never really go away simply because some one in the realtionship may not be completley opening up and willing to work through the problem and it keeps resurfacing because the other person senses that the person is not sharing their feelings 100%, it can cause some friction. So always try to listen to eachother, and be understanding of eachothers feelings and where they are coming from. You will learn alot of patience and your relationship, if meant to be, can overcome these obstacles and can grow stronger. Good luck!
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For me when I fell outta love, I didn't even care to try to come up with new & exciting ideas for my mate and me(my ex-mate,sorry!)...if he wanted to try something, I wouldn't be interested any longer. I would actually look forward to going out with my girls when we would have our "girls night out", as opposed to when I was in love with him, we would be texting each other the whole time I would be away..and things of that nature. I know with me also that it had gotten so bad to the point where I started to sleep on the couch when we went to bed. However on the other hand, I have loved someone enough to know also that if they wanted things to work between us, I would be cool with that, all because I still loved him. It didn't matter to me if we went somewhere special, or tried something new & exciting in or out of the bedroom. We could have had nothing planned for the evening-just sittin' back chillin', watching a movie or something. That's how I knew the difference of just 'getting bored' to plain just 'wanting & ready' to let it all go. You'll know the difference.
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Your heart is no longer in it and your mind drifts of being somewhere else. It's worse if it's during sex. if you're not there yet than you have a chance to save it. Talk to your bf/gf and think of new things to do to spice up your relationship, places, eateries, working out, etc. Keep changing it every week and see how that goes. If you notice a visible change than you're improving. If you feel the same way you feel now, you are looking for a change. Sometimes it works out that way. Be gentle with it and part on good ways.
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