ANSWERS: 7
  • Sounds like he has some issues he needs to deal with, including his anger. You'd better lay down some rules with him, including the fact that his being mean to you is not acceptable. He may need some professional help, but regardless, until he deals with his problems, I wouldn't be getting in any deeper with him. These things don't get better by themselves.
  • Dump him. You are not married. You date people to see if you are compatible, and if you are constantly stressed out then you are not compatible. Why be with some one that doesn't make you happy?
  • So why are you with him? What's good about this relationship?
  • Love is certainly a two-way street.And perhaps the single most important factor in a relationship, even more important than sex, is the ability to communicate. If you can't communicate with each other, then the relationship is doomed. And it sounds like you are having communication problems. Either get him talking to you about how he feels and how you feel or get him to a counselor or the two of you to a marriage counselor (you don't have to be married)...or consider an alternative bf.
  • Tell him to take " His way " and stick it out the window ! and dont give him sex ! tell him he can stick that out the window too ! Dont ever let a man treat you any other way that how YOU WANT to be treated . OK ?
  • I have to be honest, he sounds like a spoiled brat who throws a tantrum when he doesn't get his own way (my 4 year old does it too and when he gets mad, he shouts a bit and stamps about), If I were you, I would fast run out of patience with his childish outbursts. Next time he starts crying and throw his teddy bear out of his pram, tell him that if you want a baby, you'll have one. Then tell him to shut up and grow up and if he wants to moan, then he should find another room, and go moan on his own - period. If he does his 'hissy fit' thing the next time you see each other, stick him in the back of Mummy's car and tell her to drive to the nearest field and put him back with the rest of the flock (bleat bleat).
  • Sounds like you got a feisty one there. Saying mean things to you is out of order though. You should try talking to him calmly about this in particular. Don't get stressed and ignore any tantrums. If he is going to act like a child then treat him like one. Be the grown up and lead by example. Let him know calmly but firmly you will not tolerate him speaking down to you in that matter, but if he has a problem, he can TALK WITH you about it.

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