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by Somedude81 on March 4th, 2009
Well why do white men like to date white women?
My answer: Because their attracted to them.. and why not?
by Nats411 on March 4th, 2009
I have dated white men, and black men.
Both are MEN. did not make a difference to me.
I dated the person not the color.
by Anonymous on February 25th, 2008
I am a 36 yr. old white male. I drive a taxi cab, so I see a lot more than the average person. My take on this issue is pretty deep. I take a lot of what Anonymous(answer 6) says. The media makes the black males look more dominant over all other races. In TV shows, movies, music videos, and mainly sports, black males are more masculine, dominant, more gifted, and idolized by all other races. You can go anywhere in the world today, and find the folks there emulating the black male thug. That in retrospect makes them look good. White women see where the world is going and that is also what is attracting them to the black males.
White males are pretty much looked down upon by other races, we are percieved as weak, corny, and uptight. It is a no win situation with us, if we act all loose, we are looked at like we are too care-free, and goofy, if we act with any sense of sterness we are looked at as if we are tight assed.
That is why I see it as, just this... white females just want black males for many other reasons than the reasons they are giving to everyone else. In overall aspect of it all, white males are very slowly becoming extinct. Very slowly mind you, is the key phrase here. It will not happen overnight.
Yes black males are typically bad-asses, they walk, and talk with a load of confidence, nothing seems to phase them, but call them a "b*itch", or a "Pu&&y", and they go beserk. The confidence they portray is the number one thing that attracts white females. Personality, and attitude has nothing today when it comes to confidence, that is what most white females are attracted to... Confidence. It can be outright arrogance, talking so much B/S about themselves, making themselves to be a 'god', that a lot of females just seem to turn into jello. If you have ever heard of David DeAngelo, he is a man who helps men with their hang-ups with females. His number one rule is to display a lot of confidence......why?????? Because that is what really attracts females, espeically white females. And black men, know how to play that confidence card perfectly, because the media makes them look good in the first place, all they have to do, is act out a little bit.
On the flip side of this coin here, dark skinned black females have their problems too. If you watch TV, and music videos, there is almost never any dark skinned black females on them, and if they are, they are down played, and belittled, just like white males are.
From what I seen today, it is not just the "cows", "pigs", or "ugly white girls" that are with the "bruthas" today. Today there are a large number of very beautiful, college educated white females dating/ having sex with even the "thuggiest" of black males. Why? :
1. Drugs. Black men in general have the knowledge and sources for drugs, and the white females who use drugs know this. So, both are getting what they want, he is getting a pretty "white girl", and she is getting the drugs she wants without having to pay any money for them. She believes they are free.
2. To be rebellious to what she was brought up to believe. She most likely heard all through her life, to not be with black males. So, to either upset her family, and a white former boyfriend, she dates/ has sex with a black male. In reality even today...... a lot of white males still will not want to be with a white female if it is known they have been with a black male. Sad, but true.
3. The supposed "black is bigger" thing... I used to have a friend that was a very light skinned black female. She was about 40 yrs. old. She told me that she used to be a very bad girl, and that she had sex with a lot of different races of men. And that ALL sexes of men have ALL sizes. The "black is bigger" is total B/S, and if a female does cry about larger size members of men, those females have been watching way too much big industry porno, where all the male performers have very large, veiny members. Or that their sexual organ is large itself, and needs a large male organ to accomadate it.
4. They are persauded by the image, and popularity of the black male population, in general. Accept it, folks. Most of the top musicians, top sports players, top comedians, etc... are black males. (and you still hear how hard it is for a black man to make it in this world...hmmm). They dominate just about everything. Add that to how many other races emulate, and act just like them, you can see why the white females are so attracted to them.
5. And next. There a interacial couples out there that really fall in love with one another over time, not just because he is black, or she is white, or brown, or red, or yellow. No trends, fads, or obsessions. They just slowly fell in love and grew to be each others best friend. Now, truthfully. This is rare, let me see here.. look at how many black male atheletes, and media guys cheated on their black wives/ girlfriends... with what.......a white female.. which proves a accqaintance which is a female... that said most homewreckers are white females.. and they are proud of it.
6. Then there is the part I am reluntant to put here. But I will. I have heard this white females before I heard it with my own two ears, in person. Some... only some black males will use the race card on white females to have sex with them. They at first ask the white female to go out with them, and have some fun, if she turns him down too many times, he will call her a racist, and threaten to tell other people that she is racist, and no one want to be "labled" a racist. This will usually occur at a large place of employment. Sadly, this really does occur.
With my job, I see it on a number of times where, I picked up white females, from a home, hotel/motel where they were with a black male, and take them home their totally unsuspecting white family. I know that the opposite does occur, but not at the alarming rate of the white female, black male issue.
I hate being so obvious, because folks really cannot seem to handle the truth. People with real minds will know what I said here is close to reality, if not dead on. I don't know what the future holds in store for all the races, but all I can do is just hope for the best, in all races, all sexes, all people and even me. This is America, we should not hate one another, espeically your own race.
Like I said earlier, sad but true.
by Anonymous on August 10th, 2007
I do not reallt think that white men and black women is a big issue. But everywhere I turn I see a black man with a white woman, and I have asked them why and here is the answer I get.
1) White women are easier to get in bed
2) You can control a white women easier than a black women
3) She was more attractive than a black woman
4) White women are obssessed with the big black dick
5) They liked the idea of being with someone different
6) The white woman had money and gave the black man what he wanted when he wanted it.
7) White women give good head without a thought.
I can go on forever. This is what black men have actually told me why they date white women, which is sick. These relationships will never become a successful marriages if people think like this.
by killdrphil - reasonable for a madman on March 4th, 2009
So many? Well, it's not really all that many. Most of time people tend to stay within their own race.
by TVcolor on March 4th, 2009
well i grew up in a very very no black man area (of germany) where everyone would stare at a black man as they may not see one for the next year. my longest dating with a white man lasted 6 weeks (nothing ever happened) found them all to inmature. Moved to england, where i eventually found the nicest man, who respected me. I found him attractive, a proper man, i dunno we just clicked (he is quite a bit older than me though). he tells me he has always found a fancy towards white girls (he has dated black girls too though).
i think i was very lucky!? A winning lotto ticket (one in how many million). he'll do anything for me.
well then not to forget there is the black man myth of the white women world!!!!
by Rebelheart on March 5th, 2009
White women enjoy the attention that it attracts. Black men enjoy the "in your face" it allows them to project to white men. White people in the US have teen taught for at least a generation that they bear the shame and guilt of the problems of all the other races in the world.
In defence of these women. Why wouldn't they? Their children will receive preference treatment when they apply for school, jobs, and even loans. It is easy to understand why they would not want their children to have the benefit of all these advantages.
by Kitsune on March 4th, 2009
"So many"? I don't know what you are talking about. I would ask the same of you, Why do so many black women date white men? I think it depends on where you are living and personal preference.
by fuzzie on October 31st, 2009
First off the caucasions (whites) are recessive so to stay healthy they(caucasions-from the caucus mountains)have to mate with blacks all through history they have done it! That's what they were doing during the "dark ages" and why they wiped that part out of the history books.White women instintively know that their race is unhealthy and is rejected by the sun which tries to kill and push caucasions back into the caves!The white women are trying to have stronger healthier children which is an insintive part of nature.Being white(caucasion)is an unhealthy state and is unatural.Any one who needs protection just to be in sun is being rejected by nature and really is a sign that they really should not exist.All I am saying is some of us black people know how much you recessives need us to survive!
by lyndas9254 on March 5th, 2009
I don't know that so many white women date black men. It seems that is a conception everyone believes. I don't know why it may seem that way. Should just be about if they like being together or are happy or in love. Shouldn't be about black, white, yellow or whatever ethnic background.
by Anonymous on September 17th, 2008
yall are full of shit.
by Albatros on May 9th, 2008
so how come the white man colonized all the world and kicked all the races ass?the fearciest soldiers were white?the heroes were white?the crussades were white?the emperiors were white?the people that clean this land from indians were white?they owned everything couse they were tough motherfuckers.I see blacks every day and i am Albanian myself mediterrenian,they get tough when they are in crowd bythemself they shit blood and me and my othetr albos tought them a good lesson in New York,is the jewish media cutting the white hand off in Usa couse they are afraid of them,they leave them in darkness and in noway possibility to gather together couse they can be a bighger danger when they are big crowd,accusing them for racism and puting them in jail is the system cuting them off.Couse they have the highest IQ,common people tell me did any african american invented cars,tv,computers,internet,cosmic ships,medicine,everything,blacks,oh man i dont think so,they only invet filth,poverty and ignorance backed by Jews to destroy whites and bythe way i am a dark olive skin man bymyself but i still belong to white race
by Anonymous on March 29th, 2009
I was under the impression that the overwhelming majority of White women preferred White men. I'm Black and I prefer Black women, personally.
by seemsayin on March 5th, 2009
Because "so many" are fat and nasty and cant land a decent white guy.
by ROXiE on March 5th, 2009
Who cares if their black, white, yellow, or whatever color they are. What matters is that they are compatible with one another and being with each other makes them happy. Sometimes society can be so racial gosh! lol
by stay glazed on the haze on March 5th, 2009
Big dick? I don't know... they got money and like to spoil their girl and when you date a black guy, your automatically considered a prize.(Listen to the words of their songs) ;)
by debodun on March 5th, 2009
Black men having a way of filling a large void.
by .Pretty . Zombie. on March 4th, 2009
Personal preference...
and how many is "so many" ?
by Znicest on March 4th, 2009
is it the myth????????
by Anonymous on March 4th, 2009
so many? i've never known a white woman that dated a black man. so there can't be too many?
by blackpreacher on July 27th, 2008
Because,we are all the same,under these skin differences;we all get mad,get happy,need baths,go to sleep, have likes and dislikes.I believe ignorance, fear,intimidation, deception,taboo,envy,selfishness,and presumption-all contribute, to the blantant racism,and prejudices, that we ALL encounter..preferance,love and sex desire, are truly color blind- when allowed to function on their own,WITHOUT the negative oppression, of the negative attitudes above.Interracial love and marriages, therefore,comprize,those,who have wrestled with the above negative attitudes,and have prevailed-while the rest of us, are just too dam lazy, to grow up, in character,and become responsible, for the way that we think,and the way that we act.
by Albatros on May 9th, 2008
And as for better in bad we in Europe laugh with ignorance of white american women,i mean what do u expect thats the jew media advertisment tahst what they see thats what they do.American people are the only people form all over the world that spend more time on TV that any nation in the world,based on UN studys,we all know that overseas.Now we have american women lately coming to mediterrenian places like Spain,Greece,Albania,Italy,Turkey, Cyprus and Portugal.When these USA wome come here and a lot of them very hott ladies and also a lot of black american women they love us here,they cannot get enough of men here.We are romantic,passionant,verywell endowed,great in bed, aslo the food and the climate helps that.A lot of them buy apartaments here and never go back.I dated a lot of them female tourists and they all act like they disovered the new things and different planet, oh my god they say,u are better that even black man?whhaaaaatt that means?and they start talking about it how the media gloryfies the black men and we all here laugh with this poor ignorant no chioice people.Is not their fault is the media and the ecnomic reason ,jobs in us dont give vacation time long and easy,and the money is tight there and no medicar, free school or werfare when u are unemployed.We in Europe have them thats why we travel a lot,in america they cant too much responsibilities cost money and as a result they dont know shit what the hell happens in the world
by corvetteguy on March 28th, 2008
Its just because girls have always and will always be attracted to the bad ass. Just now more of the badasses are black... and for you people who seem to believe that black men are better hung, your morons. They have actually done studies of this just for people like you. From what i have read, the stats are as follows. Average black dick, 6 inches, average white dick, 5.9 inches, average asian dick, 4.5 inches.
Also, the studies show that black men have less extreme dick sizes lol. There are many more average black men than white men, while white men might have either a tiny dick,or maybe a huge dong. I happen to be the latter XD
Anyway, hopefully it will go away eventually, these sterotypes, because if this gets worse eventually everyone will be brown, and i don't like that idea. I want my great great great great WHITE grandkids to have white people to fuck :P
I think the only way to fix it is for the media to portray bad asses as what they are, bad. They need to stop glorifying thug life, and pump up the image of the genuinly nice, caring, well hung white kids like your truely.
Fat chance of that happening though, its too lucrative for ratings to do that. I agree with whoever said its the white mans fault the white chicks like black guys.
by Anonymous on October 21st, 2007
Folks its quite simple A woman sees a black man as protection and a white man she sees as weak and timid even as out media displays white men as ignorant morons and helpless and the laws are against any defence the white man might give in their defence the white man willingly says nothing does nothing and lets the brain washing continue and as such the woman is decieved . nothing complicated about it the white man has allowed the black man to take over by the media and the laws that it has made and enforce. Happy Hunting and if your white blame not the woman she is doing what she does . Blame the White man that has allowed this to happen . The next time you see a white woman walking with a black man know the problem is not the negro not is it the woman but you the White Man .
by tigueron on December 14th, 2006
ones looking for size, the other looking for money?
I'm, on purpose, making this answer as politically incorrect as the question itself.
by catlovr on December 14th, 2006
I don't know, I'm not one of them -
by Aminor on June 16th, 2005
There's a name for the logical fallacy here, but I can't recall it. In law, it's what's called "assuming a fact not in evidence." That is, "Why is it . . .?" has to be preceded by "Is it true that . . .?" Got any real evidence (I'm not talking about "This woman in a bar said so, and all her friends agreed")?
It seems to me that why this assertion is so readily believed, from both sides, is a lot more interesting question.
(Mind you, if it is true, the race problem is going to go away before very long.)
by Anonymous on October 16th, 2009
I think there are many answers to the question:
1. brothers are more sensual
2. brothers are more athletic
3. brothers have more respect for women.
4. white women can identify with strength thru persecution
Now, while I have chosen to answer what I think are the real reasons, I must tell you that any brotha(black or white) who is sensual, athletic, funny, knowledgable and considerate will have his pick of quality women anywhere.
Good Luck, hope this helps
by hayhay82 on October 1st, 2009
I'm a white woman and I date black guys.. I have never dated a white guy, but I do find men of all races attractive. I grew up in a multi cultered area and I think this has a lot to do with it. I have many friends of all races and I dont tend to see colour, just people.. I also believe it has alot to do with your up bringing and the people your surrounded by as your growing up. I was surrounded by white and black people mainly, but I was also surrounded by love which see's no colour. I would never rule out dating someone because of their colour, but i've found alot of white guys would'nt want a relationship with a female that has been with a black guy before. why is that? is it becuase of the 'myth', (which i dont believe is true.)
by Mideastern on May 4th, 2009
i am middle eastern midditerranean and it kills me when i see how white women treat white man in normal way treat black guys with great intrest and treat us with RACISM, the blacks get their pussies and we get their soft racism, although a kid knows that the middium is the best and therefore the mid (east and -terranean) is the best but tell that to stupid racist white bitches
I am tall handsome educated rich funny and charming yet struggle to get an english bitch while any black doesnt need to make effort they chase him , fuck the english/ameriican mentality
by Chrisguy on March 5th, 2009
they don't.
by Vanessa Rx on March 5th, 2009
Because black guys have flava. lol They have their own style and they are confident. There is also the impression that they are good lovers. My parents would flip if I brought a black guy home.
by Ann on a Moose on March 5th, 2009
I dated a black guy many years ago - And I did so because he was dropdead gorgeous!
by account closed. on March 5th, 2009
Id have to say because their sexy
by danmyme on May 9th, 2008
i think some of it has to do with situation/background, but alot might have to do with human instinct/nature. i think that nature wants us to spread our seed as much as possible, and cross-ethnicity is a part of that. it's like that episode of SOUTH PARK where the "future people", say that later on down the road, we are all of one race, which is a mix of European, Africen, Asian, Latin, and Native descent. Stir the drinks to get the flavors, but eventually it all comes out the same color.
by meowry on April 16th, 2008
I don't notice this.
by hephaestus on February 26th, 2008
its all about contrast, myths - stereotypes and the TABOO that makes black and white together HOT
by Maxie on February 11th, 2008
I've noticed that White women generally prefer wealthy black men. Celebrities in some arena whether movies or sports, and also those who are successful in other professions. You should ask why those successful men prefer white women.
Black women prefer white men because they are treated much better by them.
by singwell-is off researching a lot on July 4th, 2007
Now that is a stereotype. I prefer Mediterranean men, which is why I married one.
by Anonymous on December 14th, 2006
sometimes opposites just attract. It can be exciting/interesting to go out with someone that comes from a different background than you.
by Anonymous on February 16th, 2009
White women need to stay with thier own. There are plenty of white men that are well hung, great bodies, and dominant. Me myself have never lost a fight to a black man being in several, am hung more than the average black man (which is about 7 in; I am close to 8 and have friends that's women say they are bigger than that and all my friends are white), and have a better body and physically stronger than most black dudes out there. And this goes for most of my friends too so please white women, find us. And black women stay with the black man.
by engineer is Terminator on March 5th, 2009
Long dong.
by tossoffoutdoors on December 27th, 2008
Big dicks. Tight pussies.
by Anonymous on October 20th, 2008
White women want to be with black men, black women want them back. Whatever. It is what it is: what can anyone do about it. I don't go for that garbage that black men are stronger mentally and physically stronger is a bunch of bull; color skin doesn't make someone stronger. So ladies do what you want that is your choice......
by EatThePushy on November 10th, 2008
Does anyone see the irony in all of this. Some of you claim that it is rascist to stop two people of either race from loving eachother. I say that prefering someone for "race" specific qualities is in itself racist. There is no such thing as race, ethnicity yes. While men, or women, may chose a mate for specific "racial" qualities...well friends, thats what I'd call racist. Why? There is only one race: the human race. Also, dont believe the myths...at the turn of the century the Human Genome project was complete. As a species, we have learned, the genetic difference between any two humans is about 00.1% How can that be when we look so different?! Well, we look different to eachother, but to say, a chimpanzee...we really look like one person. Dont believe me? Google the human Genome project...you'll see. The answer is pretty simple...humans are a very young species; we haven't evolved that drasticaly.
by Eleven is my number on January 29th, 2009
it seems that white men in america are kind of not really men...Im from an eastern european country, and honestly i realized that when i came here...SO when i started dating women here they would always tell me that they have never dated a men like me before.......i guess its because we were raised to be REAL MEN something that America is missing....
by PUREDLAZIE on April 17th, 2009
WELL LET THE TRUTH BE TOLD ,, white women have all the money and they like to give the best head ,, its not about love trus me its about showing the white man whos the best !!! now take that ...
by MzBrownSugar on June 21st, 2009
Why is this question under the 'Fetish' category? Can somebody please explain?
by Anonymous on August 31st, 2009
me i just luv to see blackmen f**ck the shit out of whitewomen or white girls..their bros or fathers thru out history have always looked down on dark skinned ppeps from generation to generations..blackmen do this for payback becoz they know that will make the white bros and fathers even madder seeing their wives and daughters get f* cked real good..since white females have always been attracted to them and the whitemen sees that...I guess it evens the playing field...btw i don't see myself as neither black nor white...I'm a gypsie.....LOL
by corvetteguy on September 26th, 2008
SO what i have gathered from all the responses is a general theme of A) Sterotypes gone crazy, and B) Woman are dumb and vulnerable.
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by Miss Priceless Princess fancies RUSirius on March 4th, 2009
i do think it has to do with how you've been brought up (racially)and possibly (my own thoughts)what your parents skin colours are, don't forget that humans have the nature of copying others around them. may be?
by TVcolor on March 4th, 2009
I have to respectfully disagree. Sure humans have the nature of copying others around them and I agree that how you've been brought up is a factor, and even "your parents skin colours" to a point. But to say that, undermines a persons ability to make decisions on their own and on how they truly feel based on the conscience, and it doesn't really explain the truth behind the question.
by Somedude81 on March 4th, 2009